I hate my roomate!

mimzy

mimzy

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um.... ok.... nobody get Darth mad. ok? everyone hear me? nobody get him mad. just everyone walk slowly away.. and just... be quiet..... don't.... anger.... the Darth.......
 
spanko

spanko

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Okay from my perspective the dog thing is really weird. You did tell her, you had your father sign a letter she should get over that. But from the standpoint of your boyfriend living there, I believe you should have arranged a new split on expenses. 1/3 each.
JMO
 
lovethesea

lovethesea

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Originally Posted by spanko
http:///forum/post/2873318
Okay from my perspective the dog thing is really weird. You did tell her, you had your father sign a letter she should get over that. But from the standpoint of your boyfriend living there, I believe you should have arranged a new split on expenses. 1/3 each.
JMO

BF doesn't live there ......he was sick and stayed there.
 
spanko

spanko

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Did not get that from the original post. Here is her quote
So we were dog free for a while. In the meantime, I got a boyfriend, Jeremy, in March. He is 20 and had been going to school so lived at home with his parents. He gradually started staying over more nights a week and now its all the time. We are essentially living together.
 
saltn00b

saltn00b

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hey i went to FSU a few years back, which apartments?
anyway, i have had many roommates and your situation is quite tame to say the least. there are LOTS of worse situations you could be in. However, i know that being stuck in a lease with people you don't like makes life pretty crappy. you are going to have to tough it out and move out when you are able to. Just give them space, and be polite, and before you know it this will all be a distant memory.
one thing i have learned is that i have been roommates with both good friends and total strangers, and i have made good friends and mortal enemies from both sides. So, you have to be careful when getting a roommate that was your good friend before the lease , because there is a chance you guys are just not compatable to live with each other, and you will not be friends when the lease is up.
 
stdreb27

stdreb27

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You can look at the bright side, at least she is paying the bills. To this day I still have people who owe me $$ for bills.
 
darthtang aw

darthtang aw

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Originally Posted by renogaw
http:///forum/post/2873319
darth, i didn't edit it out, but i did read what you posted... shoulda been no surprise there :p
Wasn't complaining..No worries. In fact it makes the thread more humorous as mimzy and Love both look a tad crazy now...
 
braydonosu

braydonosu

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Everyone has bad memories from college roommates - At least I know I do. It's really hard moving in with someone - it's even worse if they have never had to live with someone else outside of the dorms. A lot of times I found that I didn't want to step on toes and things would just aggrivate me to the point of explosion (dirty dishes - personal effects all over the place - and most importantly their friends drinking my beer) I can say that it came to blows a few times and usually we got over it - we moved on and all of us are friends again besides 1 who actually has his boss I mean gf telling him what to do and when to do it. He used to be cool - now he is a whipped little boy - it's actually quite sad.
You've only got a little while left - it may suck but I would just tell her that she said it was ok and "let her know". If she doesn't want to talk to you again than so be it. The only time this guy ever talks to me is when I 'offend' his girlfried - which is pretty much anytime I am back up in columbus.
 
maryg

maryg

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I would talk to her honestly. Obviously she has different expectations from you as a roomate. But you also have your own rights as a co-leaser of that apartment. You should stand your ground. It sounds like a power struggle. But you guys are both equals in this case. She should not ignore the dog or take it out on it because of it neither. She sounds like a petty person.
 
girlina4x4

girlina4x4

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Originally Posted by saltn00b
http:///forum/post/2873363
hey i went to FSU a few years back, which apartments?
The Evergreens at Mahan off of Riggins Road. 2 lights past Blairstone.
Thanks everyone for giving advice. Ive talked to my mom about it (a very wise lady) and she said I shouldnt say anything to B, because she knows how B is about fights. We were never "good" friends before moving in together, but hung out along and had fun. I dunno, we probably wont hang out after we no longer live together, but Im not sad about that part. I cant wait to move!
 
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