Ok well that pic is of a hairy crab, which, from what I am reading, isn't capable of doing the things that have been happening in your tank. Especially a crab that small. I'd seriously reconsider sticking your hands in the tank at night.....Mantis shrimp are dangerous things, not death causing, but certainly can break or severely slice your finger. Mantis shrimp attacks have led to amputation in some cases. Don't move all of your stuff around, you will only scare whatever hitchhiker you have in there, and thus it won't come out of it's hiding spot for a while. Leave your tank alone for a few days, and then try the coke bottle method...Good luck