I need help with a job decision

snakeblitz33

Well-Known Member
Hey all,
As some of you know, I'm a taxidermist by trade. Well, deer season has sucked this year,... really bad. Either the deer aren't moving because of the weather or people just aren't going and killing them because they can't afford to go hunt. (yes, it's expensive to kill deer worthy of getting mounted.) Or, they kill a big deer and get it skull mounted because they can't afford to get a shoulder mount. In any case, deer season is done in one month and I only have 52 deer in the freezer to mount this year. I would normally have about 120-140. With that said, I'm looking at being laid off for about four months this year during Summer.
With bills, rent, and my saltwater addiction, and not to mention a wife and kid - I can't afford to give up all of my savings this year and still be short for a month or two till the new season starts back up. I mentioned this to my father and he said he knows, and that he is also worried. He said that he can make it on his own if he needs to, but he won't be able to pay me through the Summer, and he understands my concerns. Good.
Well, I mentioned this all to my father in law and he said that his boss is looking for a full time maintenance man to work at the new hotel that he just built. I will be taking a paycut per hour, but I will be working 40+ hours a week... and it's full time employment so I have the potential to get insurance and other benefits. I'll be making relatively the same amount of money per week at either job. He said if I wanted the job, it's basically mine. I would just have to decide by Friday. No brainer, right?
I have all of these thoughts like I'm abandoning my father's taxidermy shop at the busiest time of year and leaving him stranded to do all the work - after he just had open heart surgery. BUT - I have to make money! I have to think about me and my family now. It's not just me and my wife anymore that I have to worry about. My mom is trying to talk me into staying at the shop too... she says that if I don't work, she will have to pick up the slack. Makes me feel even more guilty. UGH!!!
Sorry for the rant, ya'll, but I have to vent somehow. I would really like everyone's opinion on what I should do and if you do say to take the maintenance job, is there anything that I can do to feel less guilty????
 

gemmy

Active Member
You have to do what is right for you and your family. Is there any way you can do some part time work at the taxidermy shop to help them through? Do you know anyone that can take your spot there?
 

snakeblitz33

Well-Known Member
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Originally Posted by Gemmy http:///t/389656/i-need-help-with-a-job-decision#post_3445382
You have to do what is right for you and your family. Is there any way you can do some part time work at the taxidermy shop to help them through? Do you know anyone that can take your spot there?
I talked to my dad about setting up days where I could come in and do the stuff that he can't. It would be working an extra three or four hours in the evening a few days a week. No, there's no one that can take my spot. Taxidermy is an art - and it requires skills that are refined over time. Not anyone can just walk in and learn my job there. (which makes for great job security!) Not to mention that not many people are willing to get as dirty and bloody and deal with rotten carcasses on a day to day basis.
I could walk into any taxidermy shop in the nation and get a job if I wanted to... if the work was there. How's that for job security? It's the off season that's the killer.
 

reefraff

Active Member
Regular paycheck and bennies are important. Just work part time for your dad, between you and your mom you'll get him through. Heck, think of all the extra money you could make. It will more than make up for the pay cut. I can't believe your mom is more worried about her having to help out at the shop than you being able to support your family.
 

snakeblitz33

Well-Known Member
When you say it like that... I can't believe it either.
I guess I'll (try) to get the job at the hotel for maintenance and then help out my parents on the side for extra work. It makes the most sense and I would definitely be pulling a steady paycheck. I'm just worried about not having any money for a few months... especially now that I have a kid.
 

btldreef

Moderator
I'd take the hotel job and try to work part time with your dad to help out. A steady job is important, and being laid off for 4 months while you have a newborn isn't an option.
 

reefraff

Active Member
Hopefully the maintenance work at a new hotel won't be too hectic so you'll be able to handle the extra work without too much trouble. If you like the taxidermy gig you need to keep yourself in the trade to some extent cause like you said reputation is everything, you need to make sure people know your work.
 

meowzer

Moderator
IDK anyone here in OK that does taxidermy full time......I would take the hotel job and do the other on the side for "extra" income
 

snakeblitz33

Well-Known Member
After my wife and I go to the hospital for an ultrasound Tomorrow morning, we are going to go to the hotel to put in an application. Cross your fingers!
 

acrylic51

Active Member
Steady job!!!! When you got married your commitment became your wife and your child....As bad as it might sound your parents play second fiddle......
 

2quills

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Originally Posted by SnakeBlitz33 http:///t/389656/i-need-help-with-a-job-decision#post_3445388
Not to mention that not many people are willing to get as dirty and bloody and deal with rotten carcasses on a day to day basis.
It's the off season that's the killer.
Sounds like it's the on season that's the real killer here.
At any rate, you're biggest job in life that you will ever have is taking care of that wife and kid. If your skills as a taxidermist can not support you all through out the year then you just need to do what you think is best. You're young, and learning to have different skills doing other things can sometimes really help you when you need it.
 

beth

Administrator
Staff member
Wife with baby on the way makes the steady job with benefits the only option really. Mom should realize that. As stated by others here, the 2nd job should be working with your dad. He has already told you that he can't keep you on in the summer, so you will have a bit of extra work continuing to work for him til then. Help him out, and I'm sure you can use the cash.
If they need more than you can't do, then it may be a good idea for them to hire a helping hand to maybe do some of the leg work stuff while your dad handles the expert work.
Is there a market online for that business?
I thought you did tank maintenance?
 

novahobbies

Well-Known Member
Good luck on the application. You sounded like you knew what you needed to do from the get-go...you just needed some encouragement. I know you'll get the hotel job!
 

snakeblitz33

Well-Known Member
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Originally Posted by Beth http:///t/389656/i-need-help-with-a-job-decision#post_3445794
Wife with baby on the way makes the steady job with benefits the only option really. Mom should realize that. As stated by others here, the 2nd job should be working with your dad. He has already told you that he can't keep you on in the summer, so you will have a bit of extra work continuing to work for him til then. Help him out, and I'm sure you can use the cash.
If they need more than you can't do, then it may be a good idea for them to hire a helping hand to maybe do some of the leg work stuff while your dad handles the expert work.
Is there a market online for that business?
I thought you did tank maintenance?
Yeah. I do tank maintenance as well on the weekends. I guess I'll have three jobs. Lol. they told me to come back this coming Monday at 8am to talk to the manager. Sounds promising....
 

snakeblitz33

Well-Known Member
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Originally Posted by goingcoastal http:///t/389656/i-need-help-with-a-job-decision#post_3445850
if you are a taxidermist lol
I am a taxidermist...
Anyways, I'm sure I would love it. Anywhere where hunting and money is involved. I hate that I have to have two jobs and a side gig just to get by,... but I guess when my wife gets a teaching job, it won't be so difficult on us anymore.
The older you get, the more life gets complex.
 

morgan175

Member
snake I am waiting a year for my coyote and have no problem with it. If they want good work they will wait. TAKE THE JOB. i WAS WORKING ABOUT 15 HOURS A DAY TO KEEP THINGS RIGHT UNTIL I GOT MY LUCKY BREAK. STILL LURKING
 
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