I need to vent.

shinobi9119

shinobi9119

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nvm its already been suggested. guess i shud read the whole thread b4 i post haha
any mess they make like unclean dishes; leavin food out and such. Just put it in their room preferably on the bed. So they will come in see it n take care of it. theyll start to clean up after themselves. I tried it on my brother today and it worked surprisingly well.
 
darthtang aw

darthtang aw

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Originally Posted by Salt Life
http:///forum/post/2903760
Can a MOD delete this thread please, someone had the nerve to make an ass comment about it and I don't appreciate it. Last time I try and get advice from you guys.

Who did such a thing? I guess humor has been sucked right of you. Sad really.
Ok, you want advice, here it is. Suck it. for 17 years your mom raised, clothed, and provided for you. Life is not fair. So you have an option, do what your mother tells you and appreciate in return what she does and has done for you or, get a job and move out. It doesn't matter if your sister has to work less than you, that is life. Period. Some people have to work harder than others. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will appreciate things in life.
So my advice, stop whining and do the few simple things your mother asks you too and remember SHE is the reason you are even alive to complain.
 
t316

t316

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Originally Posted by Darthtang AW
http:///forum/post/2904234
Who did such a thing? I guess humor has been sucked right of you. Sad really.
Ok, you want advice, here it is. Suck it. for 17 years your mom raised, clothed, and provided for you. Life is not fair. So you have an option, do what your mother tells you and appreciate in return what she does and has done for you or, get a job and move out. It doesn't matter if your sister has to work less than you, that is life. Period. Some people have to work harder than others. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will appreciate things in life.
So my advice, stop whining and do the few simple things your mother asks you too and remember SHE is the reason you are even alive to complain.
I can agree with that, but I would reiterate the "food coloring" post. I would never, ever, clean up her dog's crap. Nor would I walk them. If they leave the house before you, lock their dogs up in "their room" and let them crap/pee in there. Dirty dishes is one thing...dog crap is another.
 
maryg

maryg

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Originally Posted by Darthtang AW
http:///forum/post/2904234
Who did such a thing? I guess humor has been sucked right of you. Sad really.
Ok, you want advice, here it is. Suck it. for 17 years your mom raised, clothed, and provided for you. Life is not fair. So you have an option, do what your mother tells you and appreciate in return what she does and has done for you or, get a job and move out. It doesn't matter if your sister has to work less than you, that is life. Period. Some people have to work harder than others. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will appreciate things in life.
So my advice, stop whining and do the few simple things your mother asks you too and remember SHE is the reason you are even alive to complain.
Obviously his mother didn't only have one child. One is old enough and is considered an adult. The other is still legally a child. I can feel for this boy. I was brought up in a similiar situation. My brother didn't have to do crap. I have been cleaning, cooking, and doing laundry for my parents since I was 8 years old and my brother had no resposibilities. I was the youngest also. But as long as you take crap they will keep dishing it out.
Saltlife, don't be a doormat!
 
stdreb27

stdreb27

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Originally Posted by MaryG
http:///forum/post/2904392
Obviously his mother didn't only have one child. One is old enough and is considered an adult. The other is still legally a child. I can feel for this boy. I was brought up in a similiar situation. My brother didn't have to do crap. I have been cleaning, cooking, and doing laundry for my parents since I was 8 years old and my brother had no resposibilities. I was the youngest also. But as long as you take crap they will keep dishing it out.
Saltlife, don't be a doormat!
If you go through life wanting or wanting it to be fair you'll be sorely disappointed. (although you'd think family wouldn't be so self serving.) However, if you go through life saying I don't care what life throws at me or how bad you got screwed over, I'm going to be the best I can be. you'll get farther.
 
salt life

salt life

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Just close the thread, You guys only have respect for the regulars around here. The cinderella jokes are BS and I posted this to get this crap off my chest, you don't know my situation and you don't know what it is to be me so telling me to stop complaining is rude. I never said I had a problem doing anything for my mom to help out, I do what im told and that's the end of it. I was agrivated about the situation that has been going on and I thought that there would be understanding people here who could throw some advice my way, but I assumed wrong.
Darthtang I have humor but when someone cracks on me and calls me Cinderella because of a thread I started for advice that is low. And for you to be a mature adult that you all think you are, kept it going in this thread.
Stdreb, So far I have learned that life can get pretty crappy and it throws stuff at you unexpectedly. I never said I wanted life to be fair I said my situation with my sister and her bf not picking up their end is unfair.
Im not trying to be a big adult at 17 and I never claimed to know how the world works like el guapo said, but not everyone has it as easy as others and I have experienced rough times with my family.
 
stdreb27

stdreb27

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Originally Posted by Salt Life
http:///forum/post/2904530
Stdreb, So far I have learned that life can get pretty crappy and it throws stuff at you unexpectedly. I never said I wanted life to be fair I said my situation with my sister and her bf not picking up their end is unfair.
I'm not saying you are, just giving you truly heart felt opinion. Sometimes you have to grit your teeth and bear it, and sometimes families are the least fair among us. (Now I don't know your personal situation, and I'm not saying you are dealing with it wrong. Just pointing out observations I've had in my life)
 
sepulatian

sepulatian

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Salt life, I am sorry that grown adults cannot handle being civil with a 17 year old that just wanted to vent. It is truly a shame.
 
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