I would definitely go with 250's for a tank that deep, especially if you want an SPS tank. I would not worry about heat either. Don't forget the type of ballast you get plays a big part in the heat produced by your lighting. I run 2-250w MH's on my 55g along with 2 110w VHO's and my tank stays 82 year round with a couple fans. I however use IceCap ballasts which produce little heat compared to what magnetic/HQI ballasts produce. Google: cnidarianreef MH
Then look at lamp heat due to ballast.