Gold Strip,
I think they might be a bit on the cautious side. If they sell something that is reef safe, and it turns out to be predatory, people are unhappy. If they sell something that is predatory, then people know not to put it in their reefs. If the animal dies of starvation in 9 months, people think it is normal for it to die and buy a new one.
If the diet is not known, they tend to be cautious. In this case, the diet is most likely similar to that of a Linckia, bacterial and algal films and sponges...we think! But probably not corals, snails, etc (meaty things).
So I think you have a normal seastar.