Morality question - what would you do??

spanko

spanko

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Originally Posted by KerriAnn
http:///forum/post/2514160
Question to the guys out there:
One of your buddies dates a girl for about a year, head over heels for this girl. They break up, but still talk, all the while he never loses his feelings for her. You run into this girl and start talking and realize you have some interest in her. How do you handle this situation?
So KerriAnn, what did your friend do? Inquiring minds need to know.
 
kerriann

kerriann

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well I'm glad to see most of you see it my way. I thought it was pretty much a direct violation to date a friend's ex - at least without talking to him about it first. it ended in a very messy situation and i'm in a very lousy position right now because it's actually my little brother that got hurt in this mess...
 
earlybird

earlybird

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Sorry to hear that but that which does not kill us....
Just pick him up the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit edition or the adult equivalent, that will keep his mind off of her for a couple of weeks.
 
bronco300

bronco300

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sounds like a winner for a buddy going and stealin' his lady if he knew your brother had feelings for her still and wanted to get back with her.
maybe it'll help him move on if she had no intention of getting back with your brother though
 
lexluethar

lexluethar

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Sorry your friend made the wrong choice...
Us men can be one-minded most of the time and stop thinking rationally.
Sorry again,
 
kerriann

kerriann

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well, he's 22...but to me that's young! still in college and probably THE most sensitive and caring guy i know, although his exterior says otherwise...he's pretty broken up and the "big sister" in me is hurting just as much as him since this was a mutual friend of ours that did this to him
 
spanko

spanko

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Okay a little sexist here maybe but I don't think the friend did anything to him, the ex didn't have to go with the friend. In fact it may also be that the ex may be using this opportunity to "stick it" to your brother even harder. I believe her to be just as much a part in this as the friend.
Tell him suck it up, it was not meant to be at this time, and move on.
 
m0nk

m0nk

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Originally Posted by KerriAnn
http:///forum/post/2514448
well, he's 22...but to me that's young! still in college and probably THE most sensitive and caring guy i know, although his exterior says otherwise...he's pretty broken up and the "big sister" in me is hurting just as much as him since this was a mutual friend of ours that did this to him
Wow, that's a major burn, this friend must not be a very good one. Anyway, I hope your brother comes through gaining something positive, such as a new perspective on choosing friends or something. There's always a positive in every negative, the universe is all about balance...heh.
 
kerriann

kerriann

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the girl has never been approved by me from the beginning because i know her...history...she broke his heart and dragged him along like a play toy just to have attention when she needed it. and the ONLY reason she's with the friend now is more than likely for attention. she won't last long...
 
rylan1

rylan1

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life is too short... he should go for it. Many of the friends I had at 22 are out of my life for one reason or another... I would handle it like an adult, and move on.
 
sepulatian

sepulatian

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Originally Posted by shogun323
http:///forum/post/2514254
Wait a minute..........
What’s love got to do, got to do with it?
What’s love but a second-hand emotion?
What’s love got to do, got to do with it?
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken?
Sorry I couldn't resist the urge to be cheesy!!!!!!!

Thanks Wade, I can't get that song out of my head now

I am sorry about your brother Keri. He will be alright and hopefully see how this woman really is.
 
trainfever

trainfever

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Well, if you were the girl, my buddy would just have to get over it.

Actually in all honesty I could not date a girl who dated one of my buddies. When I was younger, my friend Jim dated this girl Kim for a long time. They eventually broke up and she wanted to date me. I just couldnt do this to my friend Jim. At the time Kim lived in Roxborough, a suburb of Philly, and would come to Philly for the summer and spend the summer at here cousins. Eventually I moved away and hadnt seen Kim in years. Then one day I saw her in a really unusual place, on a TV soap opera All My Children as Jenny Gardner. Kims last name was Delaney, as in Kim Delaney the TV actress.
 
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