My fiance has given me a choice between my tank and a....

[hockeyplyr]

Dude take the tank down , When she buys you the harly, (make sure the title and reg. are in your name). Then dump the bitch

 

[bigred]

My wife told me I can get a bike when I turn thirty(4 more years). I have been doing some research and Harley is a bike that all you pay for is the name. My buddy at work bought a brand new one and he loves bikes, he said it was the biggest mistake to get a harley. The parts, chrome pipes, chrome this and chrome that half to come from harley. The bikes are made a special way that not many after market parts fit only one from harley. That is my opinion. I'm going to get a Custome Chrome bike. It is a build it your self. That way I can learn and be able to fix it myself. As of the thing your girl says it is that she isn't getting enough attention. I went and still am going threw this but it is different, I'm married and understand what she is saying. She whats something you both can do, not leaving her sitting on the couch by herself. Flame me all you want but it is true.

 

[jhueb12]

My Girl is the best, she hated the time and money I put on my tank but sits next to me when i'm on SWF.com and looks in, she really encourages what i like to do even if it isnt her thing, she even tries to learn things to help me out!! She's great, just talk to your girl, she'll come around!! Then you can have both!!

 

[striker]

Take the bike, keep the tank and get rid of the girl. If my wife gave me an ultimatum like that I'd give her the boot. Oh sHiTTtt! <img src="graemlins//yell.gif" border="0" alt="[yell]" /> <img src="graemlins//yell.gif" border="0" alt="[yell]" /> She heard me!!! Yes honey, of course I was just kidding.

 

[byrself]

get a harley and keep your fiance in a tank! then you can give her the attention she wants!=) i agree with heavenly damsel. d**** tha b****!

 

[chainsaw5vent]

heavenly damsel. wow what a statement! <img src="graemlins//eek.gif" border="0" alt="[eek]" /> <img src="graemlins//mischievous.gif" border="0" alt="[Mischievous]" /> educate your girl on your hobby. get rid of the old girlfriend pix. (my wife found some last night of an old crush i had and absolutely freaked <img src="graemlins//freak.gif" border="0" alt="[freak]" /> <img src="graemlins//freak.gif" border="0" alt="[freak]" /> she busted into the toilet while i was busy to get my attn. i had to flame the pix on the stove just to prove the point) she likes the tank though. your girl may have a jealousy thing going. it would be your softball career, your hobby car, etc. at least with the tank she can see where the $$$$$ is going and can brag to her friends about the cool tank that you have!! <img src="graemlins//angel.gif" border="0" alt="[angel]" />

 

[blue_carpet]

why doesnt she like the aquarium? <img src="graemlins//confused.gif" border="0" alt="[confused]" />

 

[ironreef]

don't let anyone make you choose. If you let your girlfriend make you if she becomes a wife then your doomed. There many women out there ...unless you have a hard time finding them then your stuck.??. Harley will keep there value unlike other bikes because of the name. But I see now she will buy the bike hmmm take down your aquarium, get the bike in your name set up a bigger one later or you can comprimise. You keep the aquarium and let her pay half

 

[gabbys125reef]

I would never do that to my husband. Did you give her a diamond tell her your tank is like her diamond and you are getting the Harley as a hobby.

 

[bigeyedfish]

As my Dad always says, "Women, you cant live with 'em, cant kill 'em!". Its a tough one man, I love my g/f dearly and even though she isnt into my tank she still is supportive of my hobby as i am of hers. If she doesnt come around then it wasnt meant to be.

 

[tyrfing]

I believe the most politically correct version of the "women.." statement was said by a large man sitting on a barstool.
Norm: "Women, can't live with 'em, pass the beer nuts".

 

[kris]

OBVIOUSLY-you guys are in need of another WOMANS point of view And it just so happens I have one (surprise, surprise)
First ask her two questions
Why does she hate the tank??
is it because you spend so much time on it ,it can't be a money thing since the bike is so much more. Oh god you don't have an EEL in it do you??? (perhaps some green m&ms, if so you're doomed)
then ask why she supports the bike--perhaps she's thinking this could be something you two can do together, which in her "chick" mind would be worth the cash.
Are you being supportive of her hobbies and interests, if not it's not right to expect the same in return.
Anyway yes indeed marriage is give and take, I highly recommend you find your common ground before getting hitched.
An example would be my husband dislikes my hobby because of the time I spend on it and this board, and also the money. I dislike his golfing every stupid weekend we have together, and blowing over a grand on new clubs while he's doing it, or replacing our 9 month old 400 dollar dvd player with a new 5 changer (that way he doesn't have to get off the couch to put in a new movie-nope just10-15hrs continous play)
We accept these things and never fight about them. Give and Take
BUT, it is also imperative you find some common activities otherwise you'll find yourself alone all the time with the stuff you love but without the person you love.
I'm rambling aren't I?
Sorry
Good Luck

 

[joe's reefer]

give me the money ill settle it

 

[fender]

Ancient proverb
--The greatest revenge for having a man steal your woman, is letting him keep her.
Slightly off topic I know. I just had to throw it in.

Get the Harley and the tank. Girlfriend needs to grow up.....