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socal57che
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Originally Posted by Devil Dog
http:///forum/post/2829886
LOL yeah she always wanted to go to the Nutcracker Ballet I think that is coming to town... I will have to look into that!!!
That sounds like a great idea.
http:///forum/post/2829886
LOL yeah she always wanted to go to the Nutcracker Ballet I think that is coming to town... I will have to look into that!!!
That sounds like a great idea.
spiderwoman
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It's funny how clearly men will try to show their affection with *things* and women want honesty.
devil dog
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Originally Posted by SpiderWoman
http:///forum/post/2829939
It's funny how clearly men will try to show their affection with *things* and women want honesty.
Dont get me wrong... I'm going to do both! Ijust want to have something that we can do for a date... I have been trying to kill with HONESTY!!! lol
http:///forum/post/2829939
It's funny how clearly men will try to show their affection with *things* and women want honesty.
Dont get me wrong... I'm going to do both! Ijust want to have something that we can do for a date... I have been trying to kill with HONESTY!!! lol
mimzy
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Originally Posted by SpiderWoman
http:///forum/post/2829939
It's funny how clearly men will try to show their affection with *things* and women want honesty.
u know what? this is true. honesty is of utmost importance. but words are words are words. you also have to DO as you SAY. sometimes just talking about something is not enough. and in a case like this, when inaction got him into this situation, he's GOT to be aggressive, he's got to ACT. he's got to SHOW her he's serious and is willing to WORK for this relationship and for her companionship. Relationships are BASED on honesty, but they LAST through WORK. ACTION. This isn't about pampering, it's about actually doing what he says he will. and THAT is huge.
http:///forum/post/2829939
It's funny how clearly men will try to show their affection with *things* and women want honesty.
u know what? this is true. honesty is of utmost importance. but words are words are words. you also have to DO as you SAY. sometimes just talking about something is not enough. and in a case like this, when inaction got him into this situation, he's GOT to be aggressive, he's got to ACT. he's got to SHOW her he's serious and is willing to WORK for this relationship and for her companionship. Relationships are BASED on honesty, but they LAST through WORK. ACTION. This isn't about pampering, it's about actually doing what he says he will. and THAT is huge.
devil dog
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Well I told you all that I would tell you how it went so...
Here I go... not good at all!!!! She told me to move on!!! And that she has started seeing someone!!!! Oh man did I feel like crap!!! Oh well now I know! And I can’t say I didn’t try!!!!
Thanks for all your help!!!
Here I go... not good at all!!!! She told me to move on!!! And that she has started seeing someone!!!! Oh man did I feel like crap!!! Oh well now I know! And I can’t say I didn’t try!!!!
Thanks for all your help!!!
bionicarm
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Sorry it didn't work out for you. I didn't want to say anything when you posted this, but history has shown for me that when a girl says, "she wants to find herself", it ususally means she's looking at 'options' and other opportunities out there in regards to a relationship. It's probably all for the best. I don't think you wanted to be in a relationship where the person you care for may or may not have the same feelings. Just let it go and 'get back on the horse'. I'm sure you'll find someone else that is just as compatible. Probably even more so.
miaheatlvr
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There is nothing worse than laying it all out on the table and then having her tell you to move on.. But at least you are both very clear that its time to move on and time heals.. live and learn..
devil dog
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Originally Posted by morval
http:///forum/post/2832642
meh. that sucks but just move on to the next one. nuthing helps to get over a woman like another woman.
LOL yeah that is true!!!
http:///forum/post/2832642
meh. that sucks but just move on to the next one. nuthing helps to get over a woman like another woman.
LOL yeah that is true!!!
devil dog
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Originally Posted by bionicarm
http:///forum/post/2832672
Sorry it didn't work out for you. I didn't want to say anything when you posted this, but history has shown for me that when a girl says, "she wants to find herself", it ususally means she's looking at 'options' and other opportunities out there in regards to a relationship. It's probably all for the best. I don't think you wanted to be in a relationship where the person you care for may or may not have the same feelings. Just let it go and 'get back on the horse'. I'm sure you'll find someone else that is just as compatible. Probably even more so.
Yeah in the past that has worked out like that for me almost all that time but... Its that hope that makes you think it will be diff...
And its not like I wont find someone its... I'm just that person that will try and try... we'll until i get told to move on... lol
http:///forum/post/2832672
Sorry it didn't work out for you. I didn't want to say anything when you posted this, but history has shown for me that when a girl says, "she wants to find herself", it ususally means she's looking at 'options' and other opportunities out there in regards to a relationship. It's probably all for the best. I don't think you wanted to be in a relationship where the person you care for may or may not have the same feelings. Just let it go and 'get back on the horse'. I'm sure you'll find someone else that is just as compatible. Probably even more so.
Yeah in the past that has worked out like that for me almost all that time but... Its that hope that makes you think it will be diff...
And its not like I wont find someone its... I'm just that person that will try and try... we'll until i get told to move on... lol
devil dog
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Originally Posted by sangria
http:///forum/post/2832734
Maybe there should be a dating forum in the swf website. (JK!!)
LOL that would be just one more place that i would not be able to go to again... lol
http:///forum/post/2832734
Maybe there should be a dating forum in the swf website. (JK!!)
LOL that would be just one more place that i would not be able to go to again... lol