need some advice

[ric maniac]

Ok, first off I don't want this to turn into an argument, or a flame fest.
My girlfriend and I are really happy, and we really are into each other. But, she confessed that she had a dream about her being "with" another guy. I know people can't control their dreams, but it had to come from somewhere right? what should I do? I'm kinda shocked at the moment.

 

[hydrodamoper]

When was the last time you had a dream about being "with" someone else?
I have been married for 19 years and have never been unfaithful to my wife but have had a few "dreams".
IMO its normal....
Now go take a nap and dream whatever YOU want....

 

[natemd]

Completely normal to imagine things like that it when imagination becomes reality that it becomes an issue.

 

[ric maniac]

lol, I actually haven't had "dreams" about anyone else. And I know its normal but still.... I trust her when she says she still wants to be with me. so I guess its better for her to be honest, than to hide it. right?

 

[ruaround]

youre freaked out about a dream... dude... get a grip!!! what should you do??? find out what exactly she did in the dream and perhaps have a reenactment party...

 

[jmick]

At least she told you about the dream, imo that says a lot about her character and that she feels close enough to you to share it. I've been married to my wife for 5 years now and I do dream about other women and I have never cheated and never cosidered it. Besides, there is no way to control what we dream about so deal with it.

 

[sepulatian]

Originally Posted by ric maniac
http:///forum/post/2540895
lol, I actually haven't had "dreams" about anyone else. And I know its normal but still.... I trust her when she says she still wants to be with me. so I guess its better for her to be honest, than to hide it. right?
It is completely normal. The fact that she told you about it means that she is secure in the relationship and with you.

 

[dragonzim]

Originally Posted by sepulatian
http:///forum/post/2540922
It is completely normal. The fact that she told you about it means that she is secure in the relationship and with you.

 

[ric maniac]

Thanks guys, she said she felt sick about it when she woke up so I think were fine.

 

[hydrodamoper]

Originally Posted by ric maniac
http:///forum/post/2541109
Thanks guys, she said she felt sick about it when she woke up so I think were fine.

Sounds likes shes a keeper...

Best of luck!