Flower, I'm currently working on getting a larger space for a larger tank. And yes, I would not hook it up to a direct water line. But, even having to top off the holding tub, I wouldn't have to fill it up as often as I would the tank, and I wouldn't have to worry about the SG fluctuating.
That's fine if you want to get an ATO, nothing wrong with that at all.
Depending on how much your water evaporates... I personally usually top off a half gallon every other day. Considering the amount of space a tub of freshwater takes up, and the hassle of making sure it does not get contaminated by pet hair, or stuff falling into it (problems I encountered). I even put a makeshift egg crate lid on my ATO water tub, and covered that with a table cloth (it was right in my living room)...I then had to concern myself with people who thought it was a table, putting their coffee mugs, and other things on it... There are pro's and con's to everything, do what suites you best.
As for filtration, anything can be used EXCEPT the under gravel type. Each have their pro's and con's
Sump...Pro: adds more water volume and a place to hide equipment... Con: Loud, and cleaning it up is not easy
HOB...Pro: Very easy to maintain, just pop in a cartridge and it's ready to go... Con: Salt creep is every where because it splashes
Canister...Pro: runs silent, spray bar adds surface movement, and it hold lots of different media...Con: It's easy to forget and not service as it should be, causing nitrate problems.
Last: How you stock your tank is entirely up to you. Some people do make sure all the critters are from a certain area, some like an all aggressive tank...some like a community; everyone gets along kind of tank, and some like a species only type, such as seahorses.
However you decide to stock it, make sure each critter can get along with what is already in the tank.
What you add will affect what you can ad later on. Make sure the chosen critter has the needed care (some critters need a certain temperature, or lighting and some need a certain food). So you must research each and every addition to your tank. Don't allow friends or family to "GIFT" a critter to you, if they want to give you a critter, make sure they allow you to be the one to select it.
Also, quarantine new fish for at least 4 weeks, this will not only save the critters already established in the tank from disease or parasites, but it also prevents you from adding too many fish too fast, the #1 reason for beginners to fail.