I have been in the hobby, with what WAS a successful 55 gallon for 8+ months now. Going on a year since I started my cycle, as it took me 3 months to figure out ANY livestock. In April, my wife and I got married in Hawaii. We were gone for 10 days. In that 10 days, I had a friend look after my tank. I had spread sheets and schedules and everything laid out for him on the care.
When we got back, well, they day before, everything bit it. Hard. Something died and my ammonia went through the roof. He didn't know what to look for, apparently, and didn't pull out a dead fishie. That in turn led to an anemone death, and so on. He felt horrible, I felt horrible, my wife cried, it's done with.
Now, I'am all re-cycled, and a month solid on great parameters. I have a shipment coming from Scottdl99 that he was OH SO PATIENT with me on. I ordered it from him the week before we left paid the same day (dont ever reserve stuff without money. Wastes a sellers time!), decided to have him hold it until we got back, only to find that the tank crashed. He's been holding it, and is now having trouble with the weather in his area, so I'm waiting for a nice load of softies, which should be here early this week. This was bought BEFORE the new rules went into effect.
So my 55 is ready. But I can't buy stuff. I'm sorry I don't post more, but like I said, I'm a reader. I'll just have to type out my thoughts from now on.
I'll repost something similar in the sections for tank bios and stories, but I wanted you all to know my story. I think this is a great site, and am more than willing to play by the rules. Thanks, SWF, and I WILL be buying product from the site as well. I just found out about this place! That's the only reason I'm new! Had FW for years! But mostly thanks to everyone else here. The members here are awesome. I am a constant searcher, because like mentioned by someone above, it's all been asked. And I hate being told, "USE THE SEARCH."
Ah, the fingers hurt. Did anyone get this far in this post? I just wasted a lot of space, and really, should made it 22 posts. Bah humbug.