thanks again everyone, it feels good to have someone appreciate all that we put in our tanks, wish my wife would, but she is slowing coming along.
i heard the sun coral was difficult, but if you find something it likes to eat, it shouldnt be too bad. mine likes rotifers, i dont even have to spot feed it (i was - and i bought the long spot feeding thingie for it too) it seems to like when i just dissolve a rotifer cube in the tank and all the polyps just come out. they like low light, if you have a cave put it just inside the opening of it. thats where i read most people keep theirs. the cool thing about it is, its pretty even when its not all open, just because its orange.