Originally Posted by
reefraff
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You mean you want water and power? Elitist snob.
Your situation was different but I would have moved to a cheaper house and paid the insurance.
Fair enough, my situation was different. It's not at all uncommon, however.
My housing costs are about as cheap as it gets here. Yes, I could go a little cheaper, but that wouldn't save near enough in rent to make up the difference in other expenses - believe me - I've run the numbers. (OTOH - for what I make on unemployment per month, I could buy a house in Detroit. God forbid the Lions win another game tho - my house would prolly get burned down
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Anyweigh, in addition, Cobra is only good for 18 months. What if one has been unemployed for longer than that? I'm very close, but a lot of people already have been, and the end is not nearly in sight yet...
It's harder to come up with a plan when you don't see the job change coming and don't know how long you will be unemployed but that's a chance I wouldn't have taken if there was any possible out.
Had I seen it coming, I wouldn't have taken the chance either.
Only time I ever got laid off (during my career years) I was lucky, the wife had insurance and I had signed up for her insurance while I was doing the Cobra thing because her insurance was a better deal then the new company I went to work for (for a whole 3 months!). Got laid off the month her insurance kicked in for me. Would have been hard paying the Cobra on unemployment.
Count yourself lucky. There, but for the grace of whomever, go we all...
Not to change the subject but what was the deal with your cancer, do they think you had had it since you were younger and just had no symptoms?
No worries - I have no problem talking about it. If in doing so I can help someone else, so much the better.
In answer to your question, I don't know. I discussed it with my urologist and oncologist both and they didn't know either. It is possible, but highly unlikely, that it was hanging around for that long without having metastasized. It is also one of the ones with no known cause.
At some level or another, there is no real positivity when it comes to cancer. That's part of the trouble with treating it.
What can be said about it is that it is abnormal cell reproduction, except that the cellular abnormality is not significant enough that the body recognizes it as a threat. In essence, that's what a tumor is.
What we do "know" is not a surety, because
A) it varies from individual to individual
B) it varies from cancer to cancer
What I can say with positivity is that mine is one of the few that responds very well to chemotherapy. It does not respond to radiation therapy. (Actually, that's a lie. It does, but not at levels of radiation that won't also kill the patient.) The survival rate w/ chemo however, is +92%. On the downside, chemo takes four sessions of three weeks each, with a month off in between because one is too debilitated to work during, and recovery time is needed between sessions to prevent kidney failure. That and it costs 60-80k per session.
During that 8-12 month period, your employer is required to keep your position open for you, but not required to pay their share of your insurance (which, like Social Security, is a weird concept itself, intended to hide from the people the true cost of employing them.)
Not only are people not told what the actual cost for their health insurance is, they're also not taught how to prepare for it should it disappear.
That's how people go bankrupt. Or die.