Guys, lets stay on topic here. Let's keep the focus on califishdude, not phishman. Don't agree with phish either, but let's not let him upset us or distract us, basically keep taking that higher road.
Califishdude, my prayers are with you, dude. Always hard to know how to respond to something like this. All I do know is that Jesus Christ will always do what is best for you, so keep Him as the first priority and things will work out. Not like you have planned, never does, but definitely BETTER than you could hope or imagine. Thankfully, we don't have to be perfect, all we have to do is follow where He leads.
Proverbs 3:5-6