im running 14k phoenix as well. IME, that seems to be the most popular bulb among reef keepers today.
i would start out with a 14k bulb. im pretty sure you'll be happy with the color (especially a 14k phoenix bulb). if you want a little more blue, go with something like an XM 20k (very blue). if you thought the 14k was too much blue, go with something more yellow, like an XM 10k (very yellow). you have to change bulbs about 8 months anyway, so its not like your stuck for life with one color.