Wow. This is absolutely exactly the same setup I'm doing on the 120g planted freshwater in my office. I snapped a picture, sorry if it's bad, it was with my phone. My return pump is also a 9.5.
In my case, the 10g tank is used to provide extra return capacity, and my sump is a CPR wet/dry filter.
I used a 1" valve and bulkheads. In my situation, the pump was easily able to overwhelm the connection and cause the system to cavitate. I solved it easily enough. I have a Co2 reactor on the tank driven by a dedicated Mag 2. I put the pump in the sump, and put the reactor in the 10g (you can see it in the pic). This provided enough additional flow from one side to the other to balance it out with no further issues. Keep in mind that this setup only works because the gravity feed between the two tanks is keeping it balanced. You can't put a pump between two tanks like this without such an arrangement.
Also keep in mind that the level in the two sides will be equal, so if you want the fuge level to be deeper than the sump, you'll need to elevate the sump.
One other note of caution... 10g tanks are really easy to break when you tighten the bulkhead. I broke one doing this job. Luckily they are only $10.
Stress on the bulkhead is another MAJOR factor, as 10g tanks have a very low tolerance for this. I solved that problem by doing the following:
1. The connection is made using spa-flex, not rigid pipe. This allows for some amount of wiggle room, but not much.
2. If you look in the picture, I have wood blocks screwed to the stand floor around the 10g. This prevents it from moving in case the tank gets bumped by an errant elbow...