No prob dood. Ya, if yours doesnt have the blue lines around the eyes like mine, you got a female
Pretty cool, I'd have to say that almost all the ones I see for sale around here are always males.
I've had my Puffah for like a year and a half. Be 2 years next May. I rescued him from one of the LFS that doesnt really take good care of new arrivals. Right now he is about 3.5/4'" I think, definitely not full grown cuz I have seen bigger Valentini Pooffs at another LFS. The Damsel is like 2.5", maybe almost 3". He does not bother the Damsel. Most times I put in a steamer, clam, or mussle, the Damsel will try to rip some pieces off to eat in front of the Puff. He does like to hover around the meals and kind of take control, but he allows the Damsel to feast as well. I got the Damsel sometime late last Winter, and they have been doing fine together. I have a Flame Angel that keeps the Damsel in check LOL. I also have a Fuzzy Dwarf Lion, Decorated Goby, a HUUUGE Coral Banded Shrimp (biggest one I have ever seen in real life), and a Hermit Crab. Also have some Turbo Snails and Cerith Snails. Not many left though, the Puff ate the rest. Although he has spared some and left a few to live, and hasnt bothered them for like a year. I guess he likes the remaining ones