Hmmm. Ok I’ll get flamed for this and that ok, I could not care less.
The problem with gay marriage is not the “gay” part at all, it’s the “marriage” that is the problem.
If gay people want to unit or have “ a union” that’s fine. I don’t think anyone would have a problem with those terms. When you add “gay” and “marriage” together it undermines the sanctity and values of marriage and that is what gets people all worked up.
Its simple as man and wife, not all those clichés, “not adam and steve” and bla bla bla.
Man with women continues life. Not man with man or women and women. Yes, I get it “that’s how life is created marriage does not create life“.
Whether anyone wants to admit to it, this country was founded under very simple “terms” with church leading the way. Yes some people feel so obliged to get on a soap box and spout off their beliefs and what not and that fine, but for those people they fail to realize that more straight couple still want the sanctity and values set forth by being married under the eyes of the lord. So I guess all the straights are wrong and bigots and hateful people?
While the gay community is still a minority. Everyone one else must change and give up their values to appease a few others, where and how is that fair?
Does gay marriage effect me personally?, no not really. Does it affect anyone? Only the gay community.
I work in EMS and the job alone has a more gay work force then any other I am part of, so I work very closely with gay people , and while I listen to people that it does effect, they still have not come up with a valid reason either, at least in my eyes.
Really, why would a gay couple want to be part of a religion that shuns the alterative life style anyway??
You want to be married under the eyes of a belief that shuns your life style???? The answer I most frequently get, we want to change the churches view, I was raised in the “X” religion and want to continue being “X”. Fine answers but not a valid reason to take away and change a whole religion on the principle that it does not suit your life style.
If something does not suite your life style you don’t buy it, you don’t use it, you don’t change it.
You find something that fits and works for your life style.
Mostly, and this is me. We have lost all value in life, we can’t have losers, only winners, everyone gets a trophy, no one leave unhappy.
No should be poor, no one should be rich, everyone should have a house and car and live the American dream, what ever that is now. No more hard work no one has to go out and earn what they want. People have become so self serving and not know what its like to want and know the difference of need.
Life is full of disappointments and kids need to start to learn that again.
Personally I ask people to start to teach your bratty kids before they get too old and learn the hard way and try and rob my house and meet face to face with a 40cal.
