Public figures.... I don't care who they're sleeping with!

bionicarm

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Originally Posted by Darthtang AW http:///t/393487/public-figures-i-dont-care-who-theyre-sleeping-with#post_3500965
Always with the extremes. Has anyone implied such actions concerning infedility? And you call me nut job? Based off some of your extreme reactions and swings, this is how I envision you loading up The Aquarium, if you spoke German of course.I have no issue with "free love". If two people choose to live that way fine. But THAT is not what is being discussed. We aren't even discussing morality if you look at it on a basic level. We are discussing a man breaking his vow to his wife. A man Lying and cheating on his wife. A man that vowed to remain loyal to his partner. If you have no problem with liars and people willingly violating promises that are simple in nature to keep, Then you should have no problem with your daughters husbands cheating on them. look your daughters in the face, and tell her it is ok. Don't judge, don't be angry...it is perfectly fine.
As for seceding from the Union...Texas says that yearly. Me a nut job? I haven't commented once in a bad manner to President Obama being re-elected have I? In fact I have been relatively quiet in these political and religious threads. On the other hand I have been watching you pop off quite regularly in a most maniacal and crazed manner.
You just explained the mentality of half the politicians in Washington. They've been lying and cheating American taxpyers for decades. If a man or woman wants to cheat on their spouses, that's up to them. None of my business. None of yours. Maybe you should ask why they had the desire to cheat in the first place. Incapatibility? One of the two losing interest with the other's sexual needs? You know how many married couples stay together "for the sake of the children"? Some even do it for financial reasons. Patreus is a retired 4-star general? The he goes and double-dips as the head of the CIA. Think you can imagine what kind of money he draws in every month. So he dips his "pen" in another ink well, maybe because there was a "connection" with this woman. He may have spent more time with her writing that book, than he did with his wife. That's normally how it happens. Most men and women don't get married, then intentionally plan to cheat on their spouse. There has to be a catalyst.
If my daughter's husband was cheating on her, I'd simply tell her that it's HER decision on whether she wants to maintain her marriage. There's a multitude of individual's who were caught cheating on their spouses, went to counseling, figured out what made the individual stray, and are still happily married today. That was their decision. You want to make a blanket assessment, villify the person, then do some moral persecution.
Manial and crazy? Talk to mantis. He's the expert at that...
 

bionicarm

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Originally Posted by reefraff http:///t/393487/public-figures-i-dont-care-who-theyre-sleeping-with#post_3500967
I also was around in the 60's and 70's, even a tiny slice of the 50's if you want to get technical and while people have been cheating as long as they've been getting married it wasn't wide spread and acceptable. You had a small sliver of people doing the swinger lifestyle but that was with the spouses consent. And it isn't even a religious argument. If you enter into a contract with someone don't you honor the terms? It's no different with marriage.
And if you grew up anywhere in Texas you were with the hicks in the sticks compared to where I grew up so save it. You are either exaggerating or were brought up around a pretty sleazy group of people.
So now you want to attack my family you limped-legged creaton? That's a new low for even you.
 

crimzy

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Hey guys... a little off topic but bipartisan politics is destroying this country... see this thread...
Let's all get along and not worry about who's getting #%@#ed. That's the world I want to live in...
 

reefraff

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Originally Posted by bionicarm http:///t/393487/public-figures-i-dont-care-who-theyre-sleeping-with/20#post_3500977
You just explained the mentality of half the politicians in Washington. They've been lying and cheating American taxpyers for decades. If a man or woman wants to cheat on their spouses, that's up to them. None of my business. None of yours. Maybe you should ask why they had the desire to cheat in the first place. Incapatibility? One of the two losing interest with the other's sexual needs? You know how many married couples stay together "for the sake of the children"? Some even do it for financial reasons. Patreus is a retired 4-star general? The he goes and double-dips as the head of the CIA. Think you can imagine what kind of money he draws in every month. So he dips his "pen" in another ink well, maybe because there was a "connection" with this woman. He may have spent more time with her writing that book, than he did with his wife. That's normally how it happens. Most men and women don't get married, then intentionally plan to cheat on their spouse. There has to be a catalyst.
If my daughter's husband was cheating on her, I'd simply tell her that it's HER decision on whether she wants to maintain her marriage. There's a multitude of individual's who were caught cheating on their spouses, went to counseling, figured out what made the individual stray, and are still happily married today. That was their decision. You want to make a blanket assessment, villify the person, then do some moral persecution.
Manial and crazy? Talk to mantis. He's the expert at that...
You need to re read your own post here. "Politicians have been lying and cheating American taxpayers for decades" Isn't the fact a person is willing to lie to their spouse and break their marriage contract a pretty good indication they aren't to be trusted? Morality isn't just a religious ideal. I've known some people who didn't believe in god who are very moral and I've known some bible thumpers who I wouldn't loan 5 bux.
 
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