There are a few *****'s near where I live, two older ones and one that opened up about 6 months ago. The older ones seem a lot like what you all are decsribing in the fish department, and I haven't bought anything from those. The newer one has an awesome fish department, and at least two employees that I've talked with who know quite a bit about the hobby. One just posted a board with pictures of his reef tank, must say it's in great shape. He's helped me figure out a few problems as I've been coming along, and also has been very straight with me on which fish he has in stock that I should or shouldn't buy (actually told me not to buy some "Dory" fish saying they got a shipment where the fish were sick when they got them, and they were trying to save as many as they could in the display tank. I don't think that any of the other stores would have given two flips if I bought a sick fish or not, but he he basically said, "No, you don't want those" and had no problem with me leaving the store empty handed for the day, and that kind of honesty gains a few points with me.
Overall, they seem to have a better selection of fish than the other LFS that's close enough to me (at least, fish that I can afford - I'm not trusting myself with a $100 fish yet...), but the LFS hands down has some incredible inverts and better LR. I'll certainly be buying my inverts there rather than the slim pickings at *****. I guess I'm running about 50/50 on fish from *****, and I chalked most of that up to my beginner state. You want to make an omelet, you have to break a few eggs. You want to learn to care for a saltwater tank, you're going to kill a few fish. I have lost two royal gramma's and a yellow tang that I got from there, but my clown and coral beauty are both doing great, going on 5 months. One gramma got spooked by a domino damsel we had for a couple of days (too aggressive, adopted him off) and died a couple of days later, I don't blame that on *****. The other gramma and tang died mysteriously and suddenly within a week of bringing them into the tank, though the others in the tank at the time didn't show any stress.