As far as the "pre-post" filters above...
You can get a varity of filtration sizes and carbon combinations at the Hdwr Store...
In general you go from a 5-10 micron filter and then "finer" (5) and smaller (1) as you progress TO the Membrane...
If you are "drinking" the water place carbon after the membrane, if not, then befor is fine...
You can also "add on" extra "pre" pre filter stages and carbon/DI "post" stages as your needs dictate....
I started with a simple 3 stage "economy" unit and now run 6, with various outputs throughout the house, tanks, ATO, Mixing tub, Sink, Testing/Dosing station, etc...
As far as "Which are which"...You can follow the line from your source and then "through" one and then to the next, etc "prior to" (pre) the membrane and then the path coming out...
Off the top of my head I would say from left to right the first two are prefilters (course>fine) and then through the membrane...and the third a DI...