I agree with Spanko. You might want to get a second anemone. I had to get two because my two clowns (a) wouldn't share for months and (b) were beating the anemone to death. They now share the anemone, but when the female gets rough, the male has somewhere to go, it's like she's sending him to the couch for the night, lol
By the way, there are people that are probably wishing bad fortune on you for having this kind of luck