Seth, I'm super good at spending little to no money myself and you can ask Jeff here, he sees my facebook lol.
I used to save, save and save. Use coupons for everything and look for good deals every where to save some more.
I skimped out on our clothes, food and even on baby clothes and it's something I regret every single day with out fail. Why didn't I buy this for him, that and why did I think that was so expensive? He was worth so much more then that and he deserved so much more then that and yet at time I was so adamant that we save 20% min of my weekly paycheck (that never exists to me once I put it away) and put additional $300 every month on my mortgage. Then I used to say that I was goal driven but now I see that I was goal driven and yet short sighted
When he left me, I realized and I know it sounds very much cliche but when we leave this place, we are not taking anything with us and I want to say that I did everything I wanted in this place.
This makes me happy, gives me peace so I splurged and decided to live a little. After all, I'm working insane amount of hours and handling tremendous amount of stress every week so I feel that I deserve it. Seth, as a young father, working hard as you do, you do need your haven and comfort so don't skimp out too much on yourself.
Chiller was a good back up investment in case of ac breaks or anything in HOT and HUMID South Florida (my ac is 20 years old btw).
MH was an investment for my corals and for the overall looks for my tank (20k lights are AMAZING) but electric bill is going out of control and I will donate this to local school once I set up my LEDs. They have I believe 110 tall. If not, sell it. I will make everything that I have spent if not more.
I have been getting out of hands lately but I will be back to my saving mode shortly lol.
any how, back to the topic, stay tuned and you will see some changes!