Layman's terms it aint...
But I think what he's trying to say is that the because you are trying to read a reading of about 1.025, the calibration point should be closer to that because it's so far away from where the manufacturer tells you to do it.
To elaborate... when you calibrate a refractometer that reads... say 1.000 - 1.070, the readings you are most interested in are in a narrow range of that... usually a few points give or take from 1.025, since that's what most aquariums run at.
When you calibrate something, the further you get away from the reading which was used to calibrate it, the more the refractometer's margin of error causes a deviation from that mark.
Ergo, if a refractometer has a deviation or margin of error of 1% per .001, that means that if you calibrate it to 1.000 with distilled water, that reading 1.025 might be as much as 25% off. Granted, this is a highly exaggerated situation for the purposes of explanation.
Therefore, what you want to do is calibrate the device using a reading that is as close to what you will usually be reading with the device, so if you are usually reading 1.025, then you should calibrate with a 1.025 solution, so if you read water that is 1.024, even with the ridiculous margin of error described above, you will only be 1% off at most....
Of course, the problem is that in order to do that, you need to prepare a calibration solution that has been tested using a "reference" refractometer. it's similar to how you sometimes set a clock according to a reference clock, such as an atomic clock. You have to have a trusted source.. .clock or refractometer, that you know to be exactly correct. The problem is that most people don't have access to such a refractometer.
So, in the end, just calibrate it with RODI water. None of them are as inaccurate as I described above, and the bottom line is that if your refractometer reads 1.025 and your seawater is 1.024 or 1.026, it's not going to hurt anything. The important thing is that your refractometer reads the same thing every time, because it's more important that you maintain seawater at a precise certain salinity than what exactly that certain salinity is.