Using sand from the beach could (quite possibly) introduce toxic substances into your tank. If you want to go the playsand route you can search the forum for 'southdown'. It is the most widely accepted playsand to use, but a lot of people can't find it at their local home depot. In these same posts you will find alternatives such as quickrete playsand, etc, and the subsequent arguments about which is better or safer. Search the forum and decide which route you want to take, which will most likely be dependent on whether or not you can find southdown.