tx reef
Active Member
Originally Posted by chickadee
i don't like men... they're the epitomy of what tizzo's talking about... they do the whole "wooing/courtship" thing to get you to marry them, and then, BAM!!! they spring it on you a week later... "i've decided i don't want kids... i really don't like this, or that, i just said it so you'd like me"... turds!!!
The same thing goes for women. A women will do "certain things" and when you get married, she won't do it anymore. :hilarious
That being said, my wife is not like that and after 2 years of marriage I still send her flowers at work a few times a month, I make a bubble bath for her when she has had a rough day, and I still romance her.
I am a firm believer in communication and if you do things for your spouse, they will do something for you in return.
As for the original topic, I don't care what you say, I watch how you act. Actions are what makes a person, not words.
i don't like men... they're the epitomy of what tizzo's talking about... they do the whole "wooing/courtship" thing to get you to marry them, and then, BAM!!! they spring it on you a week later... "i've decided i don't want kids... i really don't like this, or that, i just said it so you'd like me"... turds!!!
The same thing goes for women. A women will do "certain things" and when you get married, she won't do it anymore. :hilarious
That being said, my wife is not like that and after 2 years of marriage I still send her flowers at work a few times a month, I make a bubble bath for her when she has had a rough day, and I still romance her.
I am a firm believer in communication and if you do things for your spouse, they will do something for you in return.
As for the original topic, I don't care what you say, I watch how you act. Actions are what makes a person, not words.
startrfish
Member
Originally Posted by chickadee
i knew him for 2 years before we got married. That's his fault. how can you possibly get to know someone if they lie to you??? answer me that!
Get a grip, it was YOUR fault for not seeing through the looking glass...you mean to tell me you let him woe you into a relationship that eventually led to marriage and now he doesnt want kids!?! he must have played you from the beginning or either you were too caught up in the lovey dovey, either way---> YOU are to blame too. DID you talk about kids BEFORE you entered this binding love???? probably not! again your fault. these are things couples talk about before the ball and chain come along....sorry sounds like you got played
i knew him for 2 years before we got married. That's his fault. how can you possibly get to know someone if they lie to you??? answer me that!
Get a grip, it was YOUR fault for not seeing through the looking glass...you mean to tell me you let him woe you into a relationship that eventually led to marriage and now he doesnt want kids!?! he must have played you from the beginning or either you were too caught up in the lovey dovey, either way---> YOU are to blame too. DID you talk about kids BEFORE you entered this binding love???? probably not! again your fault. these are things couples talk about before the ball and chain come along....sorry sounds like you got played
alyssia
Active Member
Originally Posted by TX Reef
The same thing goes for women. A women will do "certain things" and when you get married, she won't do it anymore. :hilarious
That being said, my wife is not like that and after 2 years of marriage I still send her flowers at work a few times a month, I make a bubble bath for her when she has had a rough day, and I still romance her.
I am a firm believer in communication and if you do things for your spouse, they will do something for you in return.
As for the original topic, I don't care what you say, I watch how you act. Actions are what makes a person, not words.
The fact that you are sweet enough to still send her flowers is probably why she still does "certain things"!
Good for you!
The same thing goes for women. A women will do "certain things" and when you get married, she won't do it anymore. :hilarious
That being said, my wife is not like that and after 2 years of marriage I still send her flowers at work a few times a month, I make a bubble bath for her when she has had a rough day, and I still romance her.
I am a firm believer in communication and if you do things for your spouse, they will do something for you in return.
As for the original topic, I don't care what you say, I watch how you act. Actions are what makes a person, not words.
The fact that you are sweet enough to still send her flowers is probably why she still does "certain things"!
Good for you!
chickadee
Member
OMG, i was friggin kidding people!!! jeeze!!! even ru didn't pick up on it... tx reef did a little... what's this world coming to??? i love my hubby! i was just joking around, but apparently this wasn't the thread to do it in... i'll keep my mouth shut from now on! and who are you starfish to even say anything like that to me??? if you can't say something nice, don't say it at all... standard rules of communicating with people...
tx reef
Active Member
Originally Posted by chickadee
OMG, i was friggin kidding people!!! jeeze!!! even ru didn't pick up on it... tx reef did a little... what's this world coming to??? i love my hubby! i was just joking around, but apparently this wasn't the thread to do it in... i'll keep my mouth shut from now on! and who are you starfish to even say anything like that to me??? if you can't say something nice, don't say it at all... standard rules of communicating with people...
OMG, i was friggin kidding people!!! jeeze!!! even ru didn't pick up on it... tx reef did a little... what's this world coming to??? i love my hubby! i was just joking around, but apparently this wasn't the thread to do it in... i'll keep my mouth shut from now on! and who are you starfish to even say anything like that to me??? if you can't say something nice, don't say it at all... standard rules of communicating with people...
startrfish
Member
Originally Posted by chickadee
OMG, i was friggin kidding people!!! jeeze!!! even ru didn't pick up on it... tx reef did a little... what's this world coming to??? i love my hubby! i was just joking around, but apparently this wasn't the thread to do it in... i'll keep my mouth shut from now on! and who are you starfish to even say anything like that to me??? if you can't say something nice, don't say it at all... standard rules of communicating with people...
besides, this is a forum....opinions abound
OMG, i was friggin kidding people!!! jeeze!!! even ru didn't pick up on it... tx reef did a little... what's this world coming to??? i love my hubby! i was just joking around, but apparently this wasn't the thread to do it in... i'll keep my mouth shut from now on! and who are you starfish to even say anything like that to me??? if you can't say something nice, don't say it at all... standard rules of communicating with people...
besides, this is a forum....opinions abound
startrfish
Member
oh and dont worry, im a nice guy actually.....you dogged your man a little prematurely is all im saying
startrfish
Member
Originally Posted by windmill
Either conned or un-observant....
Sorry, couldn't help myself.
Ding Ding Ding!
Either conned or un-observant....
Sorry, couldn't help myself.
Ding Ding Ding!
startrfish
Member
Originally Posted by chickadee
well, you just made a pretty bad name for yourself in my book... it's not your place to say anything like that about someone's personal life... the only one that can talk like that is that person
thanks tx!
too bad then you posted about your personal life on a forum
well, you just made a pretty bad name for yourself in my book... it's not your place to say anything like that about someone's personal life... the only one that can talk like that is that person
thanks tx!
too bad then you posted about your personal life on a forum
startrfish
Member
im throwin in the towel, besides who cares what i say, right? this is a fish forum...we both have that in common 
startrfish
Member
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tizzo
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Oh no, it's OK, This is as good as Grey's...
But well chick-a-dee, you had me fooled, I was about to start some serious therapy on you, LOL.
I wanted you to say, "because I love him" and that woulda went right back to my original topic, but I actually liked your goofiness more... But you DO realize, that from this point forward, I for one can't take anything you say seriously... ironic, considering the thread.
But in conclusion, your good... Are you jd? LOL...cause she was good like that... :thinking:
But well chick-a-dee, you had me fooled, I was about to start some serious therapy on you, LOL.
I wanted you to say, "because I love him" and that woulda went right back to my original topic, but I actually liked your goofiness more... But you DO realize, that from this point forward, I for one can't take anything you say seriously... ironic, considering the thread.
But in conclusion, your good... Are you jd? LOL...cause she was good like that... :thinking:
tx reef
Active Member
Originally Posted by Tizzo
Oh no, it's OK, This is as good as Grey's...
But well chick-a-dee, you had me fooled, I was about to start some serious therapy on you, LOL.
I wanted you to say, "because I love him" and that woulda went right back to my original topic, but I actually liked your goofiness more... But you DO realize, that from this point forward, I for one can't take anything you say seriously... ironic, considering the thread.
But in conclusion, your good... Are you jd? LOL...cause she was good like that... :thinking:
:hilarious
Oh no, it's OK, This is as good as Grey's...
But well chick-a-dee, you had me fooled, I was about to start some serious therapy on you, LOL.
I wanted you to say, "because I love him" and that woulda went right back to my original topic, but I actually liked your goofiness more... But you DO realize, that from this point forward, I for one can't take anything you say seriously... ironic, considering the thread.
But in conclusion, your good... Are you jd? LOL...cause she was good like that... :thinking:
:hilarious