^I'll have to agree. I also drink to wind down every day. I either have a beer or two or a glass of wine or two. I'll admit that my drinking has increased over the last 5 years (a divorce will do that to ya!) but I dont think it's at a point where I'm carrying my own flask or drinking to get drunk.
Anything above and beyond a wind down drink, ie. drinking excessively to where, someone previously said, it interferes with daily life, COULD constitute an alcoholic. And unfortunately it takes something tragic to happen for someone to realize they may have a problem with alcohol.
but what do i know...