If all three overflows are at the exacty same height, then it doesn't really matter.
Each will take it's share of the water being pumped up to the tank.
No real need to try and figure out what the one will do compared to the other two.
If they are not all at the same height, then the lowest overflow in the tank will take the lions share of the flow, and if return pump overpowers it - it will be flooded, until the water in display tank rises up to the other two.
All depends on each one's height, in relation to each other and the display tank square inch area.
I assume this tank/sump/system all came as a package, and the maker just used 3 overflows to feed the 3 fittings/chambers on the wet/dry - makes plumbing a little easier. Plus each trickle plate can only handle so much water flow, before it itself will overflow. Holes in the drip plate can only handle so much water dripping/falling through them.
Plus having three seperate overflows will allow you to use a pretty good size return pump - necessary in many cases with a 300 gallon tank. It gives you a lot of flexibility if you're going FO or reef - with regards to flow rate, biofilter turnover and total water circulation.
You could use one of them for return, do a little plumbing underneath, but I'd stick to what they've designed.
Normally they design for a "rated" flowrate.
This is what you need to find out from the manufacturer to be safe and gain the most out of the system.
Sounds awesome no matter what