Something just doesn't seem right... I can't believe that more than 2 pieces of equipment are causing the problem... that's just too coincidental. Furthermore, voltage doesn't have a cumulative effect. For example, if two pieces of equipment are leaking 3 volts into the water, you'd have 3 volts, not six. I am wondering if your voltage is being induced by your equipment in other ways (electro-magnetic fields, etc).
Here is what I'd do:
First, call the manufacturer of the devices. See what their technical department has to say. If the product is under warranty, it's highly unlikely that they'll do anything but replace it. Most manufacturers won't mess around with a safety issue. Most aquarium stuff has a better than 90 day warranty. Even cheap Hagen Powerheads are warranted for a year.
Second, if you don't get anywhere, maybe you should add a grounding probe WITH a GFI. I am wondering if your voltage might be induced by magnetics in the motors or something. This chance is incredibly slim, but it's theoretically possible. If that's the case, you may have no problem here. Digital meters measure volts with no real regard to current, and both current and voltage are needed to cause a shock hazard. The grounding probe MAY solve your problem. However, since you know that a voltage exists DO NOT try this without a GFI. Just buy a plug in GFI, and connect all your tank equipment to it. Verify your connections by pressing "TEST" on the GFI and make sure your whole tank shuts down. Add your grounding probe and make sure the ground wire is secured to a known ground. If the GFI holds, I'd leave things as is. GFIs will pass a fault current (stray voltage) until it reaches an unsafe level, so if the GFI doesn't trip, you should not be in any danger.
You may want to purchase two GFIs and divide your equipment across them, so one tripping won't shut off your whole tank.