Even though I tend to be shy and pop up at random times, I've come to think of us as a big family on the site. Sure we don't all get along or share the same views, but we still pull together when one of us needs help. if its advice on how to keep a fish tank, life experiences, or just providing emotional support; we are always here and willing to help.
I know you will fight the cancer. I am praying and rooting for you when I can. Good luck, god speed and don't give up! After all from what I have read you have the love of a good woman and many friends behind you, and that that might be as good as any medicine.
-Pat