The 15 most annoying things in U.S. Culture

darthtang aw

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1) Everyone Offended By Everything:
Because we treat the fact that there is someone somewhere who's offended by something as if it's significant, people now say they are offended by everything. There are people who are easily offended, people who get offended on behalf of other people, and even people who make a living being offended. Everyone is incessantly kvetching about EVERYTHING except....
2) The Majority That’s Not Being Allowed To Be Offended:
We bend over so far in our society to be fair to minority groups, that we've gotten into a position where the minority regularly oppresses the majority. Eighty percent of people may want a cross somewhere and twenty percent may not care, but some belligerent atheist complains and it has to go. Barack Obama may be President, but white people still aren't supposed to criticize him because he's black. Why should white people and Christians be held to a different standard than everyone else in our entire culture just because there are more of us?
3) Not Wanting To Hurt The Little Dear's Self Esteem:
Our public school system's obsession with building up self esteem has not only managed to decrease the quality of education, it has created a generation of swaggering dunces who are shocked and aggrieved if anyone suggests their crap stinks just like everyone else's does.
4) The Celebration Of Victimhood:
When did we move all the way from pitying victims and showing them a little kindness to treating victimhood as some sort of exalted status? Someone called you a "slut?" Well, let's give you a speaking slot at the Democrat National Convention. You're part of a group we see as victims? Well then, anyone who criticizes you must be an awful person! There's nothing noble or praiseworthy about being a victim. Victims may not deserve to have sand kicked in their faces by bullies, but they don't deserve to be treated like heroes either.
5) An Entitlement Mentality:
We've gotten to the point in our society that "I earned it" basically means, "I exist; so that should be given to me" to a lot of Americans. The only thing you're entitled to is "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" and anything on top of that is cream that you have to earn, buy, or work to get.
6) Cell Phone Obsession:
The world will not end if you don't check your text messages during dinner and it's rude to have a loud, one sided conversation with someone on your cell phone when other people are around. Also, people who check their cell phones in dark movie theaters deserve to have their phones cooked in the popcorn machine until they explode.
7) A Lack Of Judgementalism:
Nobody likes feeling like he’s been judged and has come up short, but we've taken this to such an extreme that we act as if anything's acceptable. What's worse? Pointing out that some people are loathsome pieces of human garbage or being a loathsome piece of human garbage? Once we get beyond pure political correctness, we've chosen to go the former route as a society, which is why we have people looking at porn in public libraries, gay pride parades where half naked perverts simulate copulation on the street, and dating services for people looking to have affairs.
8) Cheerleading People's Deaths:
Here's the first rule when it comes to funerals: If the person who just died isn't Adolph Hitler, Osama Bin Laden, Saddam Hussein, or Stalin, either say something nice or at least have the class not to trash him until he’s in the ground. Oh, but what if he’s a member of that other political party that you hate? See rule one. What if other people are saying nice things about him and it bugs you? See rule one. What if....SEE RULE ONE.
9) Pants Sagging Down To The Knees:
Pull your pants up, dumb@ss. Enough said.
/>10) Obsessive Consumerism:
We live in a country where you can have your pet's medicine delivered to your door, people spend hundreds of dollars on new Apple products when the old one still works, and even many poor people go into debt to buy new cars. As a capitalist, it would be easy to shrug this off except for the fact that the average American owes $15,000 on his credit card and less than 25% of Americans have enough money saved to get by if their income stopped coming in for six months. It's okay to spend money if you have money, but we're driving ourselves into bankruptcy as a society on every level while we ignore the fact that the bill is going to eventually come due.
11) Hyper-Sexualization:
We've gone so overboard with this that it's a surprise we don't have bare breasts on the Super Bowl halftime show -- oh wait, we did! Why are we not able to find that middle ground as a culture between Afghanistan under the Taliban and the "Being a little more of a whore would be good for you" message that's pushed by Hollywood today?
12) The Sickliness Of The Christian Church:
This is a Christian nation, founded on Christian principles and the Christian Church used to have enormous influence. As it was, it could be again, but that's not happening because of cowardice and laziness of the Christian clergy. Far too many pastors act as if they were hired as part of a jobs program and they're hoping that they'll have just enough old people left to fund them until their retirement. They do minimal outreach to young Americans, they don't embrace modern communication methods like Twitter and YouTube, and they don't have the courage to stand up for the principles they talk about from the pulpit outside of the church. Unfortunately, pastors with no guts will bring no glory to God.
13) Beauty Pageants For Seven Year Olds:
Taking a little girl who should be playing with dolls, dressing her up like a grown woman and parading her around like she's in a dog show so mommy can live out her hopes and dreams through her child is repellent on so many levels that it's amazing the organizers can get enough people together to put on these contests.
14) Microwave Culture:
Everybody DEMANDS everything right this second. Remember those famous Bible verses from Ecclesiastes 3:1-15?
To every [thing there is] a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up [that which is] planted;
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5 A time to cast away stones, and....
Wait, what do you mean that's taking too long? Show some patience!
15) The Degradation Of Manliness:
Men are often shown as bumbling weaklings on TV, feminists complain if men open doors for them, and we celebrate metrosexuals and wimpiness while putting down real masculinity. Then, what do we hear over and over again from women? "Where are the real men?"
By John hawkins.
 

beth

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Talking points from a conservative white guy with a blog, right?
 

snakeblitz33

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I disagree with number 12. The founding fathers were deists, not christians. This nation was founded on freedoms which were opreased in europe. One of those freedoms was religion. The founding fathers saw religion as a way for people to organize themselves into groups and a way to oppose oppression by an overgrown and strong federal government. Christians are actually a minority in the great scheme of things. It amazes me how often Christians think that their $hit dont stink and that if you dont believe in Jesus that you will burn for eternity. What a load.
 

beth

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Originally Posted by SnakeBlitz33 http:///t/395896/the-15-most-annoying-things-in-u-s-culture#post_3525881
It amazes me how often Christians think that their $hit dont stink and that if you dont believe in Jesus that you will burn for eternity. What a load.
Lets tell it like it is. ALL religions, denominations, think they are the only ones right.
I agree that most of the FF were deists, not Christians, but some where Christians. The most notable were deists.
 

darthtang aw

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Lets tell it like it is.  ALL religions, denominations,  think they are the only ones right.
I agree that most of the FF were deists, not Christians, but some where Christians.  The most notable were deists.
Benjamin Franklin,
I have lived, Sir, a long time, and the longer I live, the more convincing proofs I see of this truth, that God governs in the affairs of men. And if a sparrow cannot fall to the ground without His notice, is it probable that an empire can rise without his aid? We have been assured, Sir, in the Sacred Writings, that "except the Lord build the House, they labor in vain that build it." I firmly believe this; and I also believe that without His concurring aid we shall succeed in this political building no better, than the Builders of Babel: We shall be divided by our partial local interests; our projects will be confounded, and we ourselves shall become a reproach and bye word down to future ages. And what is worse, mankind may hereafter from this unfortunate instance, despair of establishing governments by human wisdom and leave it to chance, war and conquest.
I therefore beg leave to move that henceforth prayers imploring the assistance of Heaven, and its blessings on our deliberations be held in this Assembly every morning before we proceed to business, and that one or more of the clergy of this city be requested to officiate in that service.
(Source: Benjamin Franklin, The Writings of Benjamin Franklin, Jared Sparks, editor (Boston: Tappan, Whittemore and Mason, 1840), Vol. X, p. 297, April 17, 1787. )
Franklin and Jefferson were deists, sort of, Washington harbored a pantheistic sense of providential destiny, John Adams began a Congregationalist and ended a Unitarian, Hamilton was a lukewarm Anglican for most of his life but embraced a more actively Christian posture after his son died in a duel.
While few of these major founders could be considered "Christian," and probably did not set out to establish a uniquely "Christian nation," neither were they deists. They all believed in an active God who, to various degrees, governed the world by his providence and, at times, might even enter into the affairs of humankind. Of the Major founding fathers, yes deism can be applied to an extent. However the Majority of the founding fathers (as there were MANY) were of a protestant or christian background.
Regardless...the intent of the posting was not to spark a debate of religious history concerning our country. The intent was to point out the many things we do now as a people that lack any sense. Does it matter where it is sourced?
 

darthtang aw

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Lets tell it like it is.  ALL religions, denominations,  think they are the only ones right.
Including athiests and agnostics....:laughing:
 

darthtang aw

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Screw it, lets stay on the religious historical debate.
1. John Adams was so opposed to the idea of the Trinity that he said that he would not believe it if God Himself told him it was true;
2. Adams said that he knew of no better theology than that of the Shastra.
3. Jefferson and Franklin were not, as is universally held, deists;
4. The story of Washington praying in the snow at Valley Forge is not true
5. A number of the patriot preachers were not, in fact, Christians—including the most influential of them;
6. The Declaration of Independence was written artfully to appeal to persons of any religious persuasion and allow each to read his own beliefs into it;
7. The key framers essentially “established” their own religious beliefs in the Constitution; and
8. Far from erecting a wall of separation between church and state, key founders including Jefferson attended worship services in the House chamber of the Capitol building.
 

beth

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I think we were poking at the talking pts rather then trying to start a religious debate. LOL
In all truth, there are laundry lists of complaints, or "proof" of societal shortcomings that one can read off for every single society ever.
This one, for instance:
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7) A Lack Of Judgementalism:
Nobody likes feeling like he’s been judged and has come up short, but we've taken this to such an extreme that we act as if anything's acceptable. What's worse? Pointing out that some people are loathsome pieces of human garbage or being a loathsome piece of human garbage? Once we get beyond pure political correctness, we've chosen to go the former route as a society, which is why we have people looking at porn in public libraries, gay pride parades where half naked perverts simulate copulation on the street, and dating services for people looking to have affairs.
200 yrs ago, if you were black, you were judged to be sub-human;
150 yrs ago, if you openly thought women should be allowed to vote, you'd be judged and jailed or placed in an insane asylum.
The consequences are various movements that pushed for equality and tolerance, less judgementalism.
and this one:
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11) Hyper-Sexualization:
We've gone so overboard with this that it's a surprise we don't have bare breasts on the Super Bowl halftime show -- oh wait, we did! Why are we not able to find that middle ground as a culture between Afghanistan under the Taliban and the "Being a little more of a whore would be good for you" message that's pushed by Hollywood today?
You think we are bad now, look at the Romans! LOL
 

darthtang aw

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You think we are bad now, look at the Romans!  LOL
How did that work out for the Romans?
We have poked at 3 out of 15...the others? and these are annoyances....not shortcomings...:laughing:
 

beth

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1000 yrs for the Romans. Not bad considering we don't yet have a quarter of their longevity. I don't expect the USA or any society to last forever.
Any group will come up with a list of complaints that makes what they consider signs of the demise of society, or setbacks at least. Bloggers, talk radio, media of any kind are notorious for doing this because it pays well to do so.
the Cell Phone Obsession is my pet peeve. We have a society super-glued to the dang phone.
 

darthtang aw

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the Cell Phone Obsession is my pet peeve.  We have a society super-glued to the dang phone.
I think the pants get to me more.....No one things it is sexy or attractive. If they did male underwear commercials would dress their models that way. And cougars would be dressing their boy toys in such attire..........
 

beth

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Not supposed to be sexy, DT. Its supposed to be bad@ss! LOL Its not though. Just looks like you get your clothes at a dumpster.
 

snakeblitz33

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Not supposed to be sexy, DT.  Its supposed to be bad@ss!  LOL  Its not though.  Just looks like you get your clothes at a dumpster.
Hey, whats wrong with goodwill????
 

darthtang aw

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If I disagree with number 12. The founding fathers were deists, not christians. This nation was founded on freedoms which were opreased in europe. One of those freedoms was religion. The founding fathers saw religion as a way for people to organize themselves into groups and a way to oppose oppression by an overgrown and strong federal government. Christians are actually a minority in the great scheme of things. It amazes me how often Christians think that their $hit dont stink and that if you dont believe in Jesus that you will burn for eternity. What a load.
Not supposed to be sexy, DT.  Its supposed to be bad@ss!  LOL  Its not though.  Just looks like you get your clothes at a dumpster.
if it is suppossed to be bad ass, show me one actor where the character was bad ass sagging his skinny jeans........all i have to say.
 

2quills

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Yeah but his belt ain't saggin'
The Holster, now that's another story. Besides, I always thought that the coug's prefered a man with his gun hung lllll...ohhh nm.
 

reefraff

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As far as the religion deal numerous founding fathers were indeed Christian and most believed in God in some form but anyone who has read the first amendment can't make a serious argument that we were founded as a Christian Nation.
And they knew what a belt is used for
 

dmanatee

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Correct me if I am wrong here, but as I recall the baggy pants thing was actually started by prison inmates as a symbol for (lets just call it willingness or not for attention) (I know...I know... don't be so worried to offend someone; see line 1)
This trend in prisons slowly trickled out, into main stream and the meaning was lost or other non-informed people decided to emulate this "bad" look. It really is an awful trend, although its entertaining to watch some of these guys try to run across the street; with their arms full and pants dragging on the ground, only to trip on their own pants.
 
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