update

[jennythebugg]

just got back from the dr's ,tobins cancer is back . there is more lymph node involvement and it is starting to grow into his pancreas(still in the tail mostly..thankfully). the mass in his spleen has grown more ,dr watkins said they want to do one more chemo ( the chop chemo again) that if this next chemo doesnt knock it into remission there may be nothing else he can do.they will start the chemo on thursday .i thank you all for your prayers and am asking please for your continued prayers...jenny

 

[rabbit_72]

I am SO sorry that you guys have to go through this. Hang in there. We are all pulling for both of you and the kids. Peace and prayers with you always.

 

[reefernana]

Originally Posted by jennythebugg
just got back from the dr's ,tobins cancer is back . there is more lymph node involvement and it is starting to grow into his pancreas(still in the tail mostly..thankfully). the mass in his spleen has grown more ,dr watkins said they want to do one more chemo ( the chop chemo again) that if this next chemo doesnt knock it into remission there may be nothing else he can do.they will start the chemo on thursday .i thank you all for your prayers and am asking please for your continued prayers...jenny
Oh, Jenny, I'm so sorry to hear this! You, both, are in my prayers. And as a fellow cancer patient, I just hate hearing this as you well can imagine. Here's hoping that this one last chemo does the trick. And, yes, I believe that it could be just one that can do it. I will be praying hard!

 

[huskychasrs]

Tell Tobin to keep his chin up and keep swinging. You guys are in my prayers.

 

[reefreak29]

ugh, that sucks tell tobin im prayin for him and u

 

[tne1cancme]

Jenny, If it's okay with you guys, I have quit a few contacts in the BGCO, I will try to have Tobin put on as many church prayer lists as I can.
I will continue to wage a prayer war against this cancer.
If you need me just call.
God Bless
Tim

 

[jennythebugg]

i think its the stress or nerves maybe but since we woke up this morning weve been picking fights with each other . he has been asleep since we got back from the dr. thank you guys for your support ..jenny

 

[crimzy]

It's kind of amazing how many people have come to care about Tobin's well-being without ever meeting him. You two will come out of this ok... in 6 months, you'll be posting wedding pics.

 

[myreef05]

Lord your child Tobin needs your healing touch. Graceous heavenly Father we ask that you heal his sickness and ease the pain. Give strength and love to both Tobin and Jenny as the stress wears at their being. You know they are hurting, only You Lord can help. Ease their tensions and let them grace each other with their presence. We pray these things in your Son's name, Amen.

 

[scotts]

Well to state the obvious, THAT SUCKS!!!! Anyway tell the old fart that I am still sending him a frag for his 10 gallon tank. It will go out this week.

 

[ric maniac]

wow! im so sorry. i come from a family of disease. i have diabetes, my dad has ms and my granpa has had cancer. i know how it feels and you are in my prayers.

 

[m0nk]

I'm so sorry to hear about Tobin's health. My family has cancer in our genes as well so I know how tough this can be on a family. I will light a candle for him tonight. Be strong and I hope things get better.

 

[1journeyman]

Jenny, tell Tobin to get better quick. We need his Right Wing Conservatism around here as soon as possible.

 

[bronco300]

hey you two....we will be sure to keep you and your families in our prayers...tell him to get better soon as possible....be sure to let us know if we can be of any assitance!

 

[tangman99]

Get well soon Tobin! I'll keep you in my prayers.

 

[autofreak44]

praying for the best for both of you, keep us updated

 

[renogaw]

know he's in my thoughts as well, and hopefully things work out

 

[dragonzim]

You and Tobin are both in my thoughts.
Get well soon Tobin!!!!!

 

[jennythebugg]

he's depressed , understandably so , he should at least get out of bed and sit in the recliner for a minute ..with the exception of going to the bathroom(thats when he logs in and checks his threads but doesnt post anymore..thats not like him either) he has been in bed for over 24 hours .is this normal after his new news or should i find someone for him to talk to ?
thank you all for your prayers and well wishes

 

[renogaw]

just give some time and make sure he knows you're there for him (even if he already knows) and that we'll be here when he's ready.