Welcome to the boards and also welcome to the most addictive hobby on the planet.
It sounds to me like your Coralife lights are PC lights. The blue colored bulb would be an actinic bulb. I would check and see if you can find out any model numbers or any other identifiying marks on them. If they are PC lights they really arent going to be strong enough for the anenome's you have. They could possibly be T-5 lights but it doesnt sound like it to me from your description.
Filtration-
More description would be required to help determine what kind of filtration you have. For example, do you only have the 90g tank and no other smaller tanks? Is there any equipment hanging off of the back? What does all of the plumbing go to? Etc...
Cycle-
It is highly likely your tank will have some sort of cycle during the move. Especially since it sounds like you switched out the sand? Did you get all new sand or just take off some of the "Pink Sand"?? The pink sand description is confusing to me. Realistically you would not have wanted to add any more fish during the move but there is nothing you can do about that now. A big move will be a lot of stress for the fish. I highly recommend testing your water parameters every day. PH, ammonia, nitrite, nitrate, alkalinity. If you didnt get these kits with your purchase they are a must have. You have a lot of expensive livestock in the tank and knowing the water parameters is essential to keeping them alive.
Live Rock
It is hard to tell how much LR you might have because it varies by density. A good rule of thumb is you can never have too much. I myself like to have the tank pretty full of it so it looks more natural like a reef. Additionally, LR is essentially most of your filtration so again the more the better.