simple solution, pods, snails and worms BUT you only want to sift the upper layers, sifting the lower layers defeats teh purpose of having a dsb(in this case, you should only havce a small bed)
next problem, one thing over looked, you NEED those oxygen deprived areas for nitrate reduction, this is where the bacteria lives that breaks nitrate down into gas, This bacteria cannot live in oxygen rich areas. So this sand does you a WORLD of good(not no good)
That is why we like them deeper, and I personally know 2 marine biologists who agree with me completely(plus others, not to meniton Ron Shimek who i don't personally know, but knows more about dsb's and this hobbby than any other man i have heard of), one of them happens to be head of his department at a very will known university, and is also well respected in the hobby.
PS. again, I am wondering still, what it is you have learned the hard way. This is not an attack, I really am curious. I was not looking for you to tell me to go ask a marine biologist questions that i already have(a long time ago), but to find out about your personal hard learned experiences. I have never encountered or heard of a tank exploding b/c of it havin a dsb, I have heard of otehr horror stories which no one sems to be able to justify.
ANYHOW, is this what happened to you? Did your tank explode, caused by a dsb expanding?? if so, I really would like to know, as iI mentioned earlier if for no other reason, personal knowledge.