as far as the anemone goes, i've been doing it for seven yrs and the longest i've been able to keep one is about six months, and then they just melt away into lovely brown goo. look on line and find a good test kit. they'll start around $30 and they'll last awhile. make sure it tests for the 4 basic and then for Ca. and phosphates, and dkH. that way, you'll become more in tune with what's going on in there. then get additives. I use trace elements, strontium, coral vit and coral accel. for Ca i use arga-milk., and start using those. all of that, you can get on-line for a good price. go with the 64oz. cheaper that way. about ich- all fish have ich, it's not a problem until your fish get stressed, usually water quality. over feeding is a killer. red algae is a sign of high phosphates and poor lights, and lights on for too long. with your own test kits, you can usually find the problem. also, i don't know what type of water you use, but mine is just plain ole tap. i use a de-chlor to get rid of the chlorine. that might be a problem for you. i hope you don't take all of this wrong, cause i'm not trying to preach at you, i just wish i had all the money back i spent at the school of hard knocks, cause i'd be a much richer man. even now there are times i'd like to take a ball-ping hammer to my tanks-thank God for my wife being a voice of reason.