thanks for all the replies. no new fish in over 9 mo. he is the only fish to change his color. as for other fish picking on him, its the other way around, he likes NO ONE to come near his space, not even hermits, he only lets my 2 emerald crabs hang out with him. he even feeds them.
i am taking my tank down this weekend cause we are moving, i hope all goes well and i dont loose anyone in the move.