I just saw this post, so excuse the delay in posting a reply.
I have a sea apple. In case you didn't know it most that are stocked at the LFS are from Indonesia, if memory serves me correctly. These are regular sea apples, however there is a Royal Sea Apple from Australia that is even more brightly colored and even more sensitive to water parameters that I will describe below.
The basic difference between the two types other than where they come from are color. Billiant purples, blues, red, orange and bright white will probably result in the identification of them being an Australian Sea Apple.
Although a few books say a 50 gallon tank is sufficient for it, they put a huge bioload on your tank so at the very least I'd say 50 gallons, preferrably double that. Keep in mind due to the feeding requirements of sea apples (what goes in must come out) doing more water changes than you normally would have done is almost a given if you check your water parameters.
Also they cannot tolerate swings in salinity or temperature. The Australian Royal Sea Apple is even more sensitive than From what I have read optimal temperature to the tank they are in is 79 degrees. You should have a high flow rate or turnover in your tank. Lighting for a sea apple is immaterial.
Yes, they can crash a system if they get stressed or die in your tank. More often than not, this happens if they get stuck in an intake or become extremely stressed. I have heard about blue legged hermit crabs stressing sea apples, but have never witnessed anything like that.
The most interesting thing about a sea apple is that they breath through their butt and they feed on phytoplankton (which you should purchase) sticking the tentacles in their mouths constantly to keep up with the demand for food. Sea apples should be feed the normal dose of phytoplankton daily, however I feed mine twice a day and just add half doses to my tank so there is enough food for it to consume.
The one thing that should be pointed out to anyone who hjas them, saying they have had no problems with their sea apple that is six months old is saying nothing about the health of the sea apple. They will slowly starve to death if you aren't adding phytoplankton daily and you don't see it constantly feeding.
Another interesting thing to note is that certain types of fish and crabs live in the butthole of the sea apple and come out at night to eat, retreating back to the sea apple when you turn on your lights.
I absolutely love my Australian Sea Apple as he is quite the showstopper in my aquarium when people look at my 'favorite' tank he is in.
Denise M.