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lmao you guys are so mean!!!

Originally Posted by ReefForBrains MODS please delete entire thread as to keep the debate to min for our guest's comfort here on the boards yes now i want this to be deleted thanks

thanks for all your help and everyone elses it was very appreciated

Originally Posted by socal57che You can hide your phone number. I think it's *71. I'll check and get right back. im pretty sure that you can still trace the call even if you "hide" your number.. you can get anything that you wanted as long as you had a good enough reason in doing so

Originally Posted by ReefForBrains Of course you should try speaking with your Mother first but I had thought you already tried with her and she wont listen. The problem with the situation is you are the child. Some if not MOST parents assume they know best. I thought she had made it clear...

Originally Posted by socal57che You must be straight with her. No games. I don't know what counselors or even pastors are required to do, legally speaking. If you are uneasy about legal ramifications contact a pastor via telephone for advice. If you think that they are going to report it to...

Originally Posted by socal57che Your bond with your mom may be much stronger than you give her credit for. She probably knows where this is going to end up, which is why she gets angry. She will lose any conrtol and security she may feel by ignoring it. Once she faces the reality of this mess...

Originally Posted by socal57che This won't work. It's obvious he won't change. You must talk to your mom. Things cannot exist as they were. He changed that. If your mom will not initiate the conversation you will have to. This will not just go away. Most likely it will be worse the next...

Originally Posted by ReefForBrains you dont have the min post count to access PM. You can use your regular ID if you like. I wont share it with the boards. do you promise that you wont tell anyone? but then again what is a promise, i have had many people promise me things its just saying yes...

Originally Posted by ReefForBrains Ever hear the phrase- "If I knew then what I do now things would be a lot different" ? I could scream it till I am blue in the face, but you sound like you have made up your mind. Years from now if you have a family and your daughter God forbid comes to you...

and i dont think i can PM you unless i make a post.. im not seeing a private message thing...

Originally Posted by ReefForBrains Foster care is not up to YOU as I mentioned above. It sounds horribly insensitive in print when I say this is not something they put in the lap of a youth for good reason. Your feelings and reactions are yours to feel. There is no right or wrong in a situation...

Originally Posted by bruner54 i agree or just tell your mom straight up how you feel and see what she says if shes not gonna do anything you should seriously consider talking to a councelor ive tried bringing it up and hinting it but she just yells at me... or she gets upset and stuff but i...

Originally Posted by ric maniac A man who likes teenage girls IS a sexual predator, no matter how you slice it. And I work at a daycare lol, so I'm not implying that. my point was IF i looked at him that way i dont think he does anything to little children as in his daycare kids are fine... he...

Originally Posted by ReefForBrains No not true. A counselor CAN, WILL, AND SHOULD tell the proper authorities if you are in danger. Like it or not, your not an adult. Translation as harsh as it might sound- You are not of an age where you can make long term choices about what might be in your...

Originally Posted by ric maniac If you ask I believe you are entitled to know. How do you know he hasn't done this to his daughter's friends? Did they not tell you? Because you arent telling anyone, but it still happened. The fact that he works with children is a major red flag. He has done it...

Originally Posted by ReefForBrains Alright kiddo. Thats some rant. I am careful with my words since I dont want to just sound like a jerk if your in true need. This is sharing perhaps a bit much with an open board but who cares right, everyone already knows way too much about me anyhow. I...

Originally Posted by reefraff Talk to the school phsycologist (SP?) If the person is licensed which they usually are they can't tell, confidentiality law. school is out for the summer... lol.. and how do i find out if they are licensed just ask them?

Originally Posted by EL GUAPO Ok seriously its not what you want to hear but you need to tell somebody that can help you . This guy is not a nice guy . He is not going to stop this behavior . He has done it before you and he will do it after you . He will continue to pray on young girls . this...

Originally Posted by ric maniac He is everything but great. He simply portrays himself to be, so that he can get girls, like you, to trust him. It's part of the whole predator thing. Sounds harsh but, he has been playing you for a long time. you need to tell someone. There is not getting around...