stressed out... BAD... ='(

fishygurl

fishygurl

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Originally Posted by socal57che
http:///forum/post/2637169
This seems like the wrong way to address your mom. She will lose trust in you if you play games to see if she will come around. Be honest and forthcoming. It is the best way.
i am not playing games, i just want to see if i can live with my mom without him before i decide to go to a foster home which other people have suggested... i want to take all options into consideration and really i think the one i would be most happy in would be with my mom without him if she is not willing to do this (which i am 99% sure she will) i will look at my options again and will probably go to a foster home..
im just trying to get the place i will be the happiest at..
 
socal57che

socal57che

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Originally Posted by FishyGurl
http:///forum/post/2637170
what if i just want him out of my life and to live with my mom? going to see proffesional help may prevent me from doing so as RFBs pointed out somewhere earlier in this thread i am not of legal age to make decisions by myself, knowing how people act they would probably decide to take me away from my mom from one thing she did wrong.. i do not want this to happen unless she refuses to break up with him and not talk to him again... i am very serious on this matter that i do not want to go somewhere else unless i have to.. i like it with just me and my mom, i do wish my mom wasnt as stressed out and didnt feel like she always needed a guy around for security..
is there anything really bad that could happen in just trying to do this?
You must be straight with her. No games. I don't know what counselors or even pastors are required to do, legally speaking. If you are uneasy about legal ramifications contact a pastor via telephone for advice. If you think that they are going to report it to authorities before you are ready then hang up. Eventually you should bring this to authorities. Someone will be next. Some girl you don't even know. You could be the one to bring this to a stop.
 
reefforbrains

reefforbrains

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Of course you should try speaking with your Mother first but I had thought you already tried with her and she wont listen.
The problem with the situation is you are the child. Some if not MOST parents assume they know best. I thought she had made it clear about her intentions for the future to continue to involve this Boyfriend.
No one will hold a grudge legally and the proccess is in place to AVOID separating families. You want resolution, not revenge.
SoCal brings up a pastor as a possible resource. Many avenue to try before thinking extreme.
 
socal57che

socal57che

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You must be straight with her. No games. I don't know what counselors or even pastors are required to do, legally speaking. If you are uneasy about legal ramifications contact a pastor via telephone for advice. If you think that they are going to report it to authorities before you are ready then hang up. Eventually you should bring this to authorities. Someone will be next. Some girl you don't even know. You could be the one to bring this to a stop.
 
stressed=/

stressed=/

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Originally Posted by socal57che
http:///forum/post/2637175
You must be straight with her. No games. I don't know what counselors or even pastors are required to do, legally speaking. If you are uneasy about legal ramifications contact a pastor via telephone for advice. If you think that they are going to report it to authorities before you are ready then hang up. Eventually you should bring this to authorities. Someone will be next. Some girl you don't even know. You could be the one to bring this to a stop.
they could always trace the call so hanging up wouldnt work..
 
stressed=/

stressed=/

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Originally Posted by ReefForBrains
http:///forum/post/2637174
Of course you should try speaking with your Mother first but I had thought you already tried with her and she wont listen.
The problem with the situation is you are the child. Some if not MOST parents assume they know best. I thought she had made it clear about her intentions for the future to continue to involve this Boyfriend.
No one will hold a grudge legally and the proccess is in place to AVOID separating families. You want resolution, not revenge.
SoCal brings up a pastor as a possible resource. Many avenue to try before thinking extreme.
i hinted it before because i was unsure if i wanted to get him out of my life or make my mom happy more.. i think that if i just confront her about it she would end it.. but i think she will be devasted about it for a long time maybe ever... idk but i think she would do it for me..
 
stressed=/

stressed=/

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Originally Posted by socal57che
http:///forum/post/2637178
You can hide your phone number. I think it's *71. I'll check and get right back.
im pretty sure that you can still trace the call even if you "hide" your number.. you can get anything that you wanted as long as you had a good enough reason in doing so
 
reefforbrains

reefforbrains

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Originally Posted by stressed=/
http:///forum/post/2637179
i hinted it before because i was unsure if i wanted to get him out of my life or make my mom happy more.. i think that if i just confront her about it she would end it.. but i think she will be devasted about it for a long time maybe ever... idk but i think she would do it for me..
avoid having too much all worked out in your head.
Talk to her with sincerity and honesty. Go from there. Step by step
 
reefforbrains

reefforbrains

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No one will trace your number. If you admit to burying a body and then try to hang up on them then possibly, but you have been watching too many movies.
Prime reason they wont trace your number is if you dont want to say it, then they cant do it for you. You have to treat it serious before others do.
 
socal57che

socal57che

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Originally Posted by stressed=/
http:///forum/post/2637177
they could always trace the call so hanging up wouldnt work..

Originally Posted by stressed=/
http:///forum/post/2637180
im pretty sure that you can still trace the call even if you "hide" your number.. you can get anything that you wanted as long as you had a good enough reason in doing so
use a pay phone.
btw, it's *67.
 
socal57che

socal57che

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Originally Posted by ReefForBrains
http:///forum/post/2637183
No one will trace your number. If you admit to burying a body and then try to hang up on them then possibly, but you have been watching too many movies.
Prime reason they wont trace your number is if you dont want to say it, then they cant do it for you. You have to treat it serious before others do.
 
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