Originally Posted by Jmick
it's a shame he didn't have anyone in his life who could have helped him out.
I worked at the hospital here for a while and I know one thing. All you had to do was tell somebody, anybody that you wanna hurt yourself and/or others, and with no questions, they'd PAY for you to get a ride to the "behavioral health center". A center that is funded, mostly by the Gov't. YOUR taxes, so not only did he have a place to seek help, YOU help pay to keep that place up, running, and available.
I don't own a gun, but I do not blame the gun. Heck, I wish somebody else on the campus had one at that particular time!
I don't think he wanted help... There are plenty of places to get help...I think he wanted to make a statement. This, makes him the idiot that he is, IMO...
OK, I'm done.
I feel so bad for the parents. Losing a kid is one thing, but losing a kid in college would be especially hard, IMO.
You instill all your values, all your beliefs, and while raising them, you hope the best but never really can tell what they will do with all that you taught them. When they go to college, you start to see where they are going. This is when you realize that maybe they can or will change the world. Maybe they will make a difference.
This is the pivotal point between child and adult. So many hopes, so many dreams in the making...
I can't quite wrap my brain around the magnitude of this sadness, and it was all due to one single individual.