Thanks everyone,
Dave, you are not terrible at explaining things, you guys really helped me out.
KrunK, Oscar was a cool critter, I was very sad when he died. We bought him from a lfs online. I plan on getting another one someday, after lots more research, they are not the easiest to care for.
NM reef, I;m glad to be posting a little more these days, I guess it means it has slowed down alittle for me. Fixit is not any better, we are waiting for a call to the U of M pain clinic, his surgin has reffered him to them, he is still shying away from doing the surgery on Tom's neck, with the FMS he's afraid he will not get any bennifet from the surgery. So we wait so more. I pray that when he goes (he'll be gone for at least 14 days) they can find
the cause of all the headaches, and do something to fix them.
So look out when he goes, you guys will probaly get really sick of me. Lisa