Ok kathy let me break this down a bit and then you can have it deleted if you like.
I said relax b/c that's what I meant. If I wanted to say have partience someone will help you then I would have said that.
Relax and enjoy the hobby, there is no need to rush into anything. Kick back and read up, talk to people and take this acro as a lesson learned. We here just try to save folks they mistakes we ( I ) have made along the way. This hobby is not for people who want instant gratification. I didn't mean it to be offensive and there was no need for you to jump on my case.
Your question was answered by a few different people, unfortuantly the answers don't boad well for the acro. I am sorry for that, but please don't take my saying relax any other way than the way I meant it. ENJOY THE HOBBY and even the lessons you learn along the way.