I agree with Greatfullreefer. Get those two items. I also went through a major loss. I attributed mine to too many fish in at once. I foolishly thought my tank had cycled with only LS. Then I when I was at the LFS, I was like a kid in a candy store, "Gimme that one", I'll take one of those, and two of those" etc. .. I also didnt have a QT set up. Believe me, I got one right away after that fiasco.
Also, the water you used when you changed it, was it Tap water? If yes, did you add a dechlorinator? one that removes Chloramines as well??
Do you use RO/DI water? if yes, was it possible it was contaminated by anything near the storage tank?
It happened to me. I went to get some RO/DI water, and I find, two mop buckets that the cleaning lady uses right on top of my RO water storage bin. Even though the cover was on, I didnt take any chances.....I dumped the whole thing...about 20 gallons, then got a new storage bin, and made new water.
For what it's worth...I'm sorry for your loss as well.