Originally Posted by KerriAnn
it's just a little rude is all i'm saying. i didn't post the question to get critized, i have my mother for that. i wanted an answer as to where the fish might be hiding or what i should do for my tank. people come in here with this "greater than thou" attitude and quite frankly i don't think it's necessary. EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES - especially in this hobby. at the time we got the cleaner wrasse we didn't know it was a bad idea til after we did some reading. our LFS wasn't thinkin clearly the day he sold it to us as he had just watched his dog get hit by a car. and while no one here trusts their LFS, ours has yet to steer us wrong (except for this small oversight). so, while i appreciate everyone elses comments, i do not feel that i have done anything to deserve to be berated like that
Don't worry about it, ol' TangBoy is clearly a jerk. He's (and I'm only assuming gender) done this in several other threads. We ALL make mistakes in this hobby. What separates some from other is our ability to learn from mistakes, research the field, and never assume we have the absolute answers. Over the years I've learned quite a bit, plus I have a wife who is a biologist so that helps, and my good friend does work with the biology department at Case Western Reserve, so I get help there too. No one is perfect, and you'll find that the majority of people here want to help, not berate.