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nigerbang

Active Member
Its already done to a certain extent in GA.
Peewee sports teams, Everyone gets to play and no one is a loser. They dont keep score or stats.
When I was playing baseball(15 years of BB) if you sucked then you were cut..
 

aquaknight

Active Member
I just can't wait till we all get paid the same. I mean, clearly if talent and ability have no place, why's that other guy making more then me? Unfairs I's tells ya!
 

dragonzim

Active Member
They must have been watching too much American news. I'm honestly surprised we havent seen a story like this here in the USA yet.
 
its already going on with youth sports here. outrageous, just setting the kids up for failure. i tell my 2 year old lifes not fair deal with it! these people giving their children false hope, im sure it will always be someone else's fault if their little darling isnt the valedictorian or president of a company. ignorant if you ask me. just bad parenting.
 

cowfishrule

Active Member
exactly.
my son is 3. no way in hell am i teaching him that everybody is a winner.
sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. deal with it.
 
honestly thats the real way to teach them to be an adult, and isnt that the job of a parent to teach their children how to be adults, well mannered, productive adults. not whiney little brats if they dont get to be the star of the play.
 

camfish

Active Member
Originally Posted by COWFISHRULE
http:///forum/post/2655299
exactly.
my son is 3. no way in hell am i teaching him that everybody is a winner.
sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. deal with it.
Yeah, why lie to the kid, it makes things harder in the future, that is how I will parent.
 
start with the truth stay with the truth, you wont have to backtrack and cover up your lies. we dont do santa at our house either, its good boy presents for the year. my son knows about death i dont lie to him when an animal dies or hide it i show him and talk to him about it. the hardest thing is when my son comes to me and asks where's daddy, i tell him he's fighting the bad guys, even harder will be if he doesnt come home.
 

ruaround

Active Member
Originally Posted by NigerBang
http:///forum/post/2654696
Its already done to a certain extent in GA.
Peewee sports teams, Everyone gets to play and no one is a loser. They dont keep score or stats.
When I was playing baseball(15 years of BB) if you sucked then you were cut..
they do that here too, until the age of 9... Tee Ball is the absolute worst... even when the kids make a nice play and get the runner out they are still called safe... WTF???!!! every kid is out on the field... thats why this year i petitioned to play my son up... so he played machine pitch (45 to 50 mph) and he only struck out 5 times out of 25 or so times at bat... there were only 9 kids in the feild and 3 (when all 12 showed) sat on the bench... thats the way the game is played and how else are the kiddos supposed to learn it!!!
 

el guapo

Active Member
Lifes not fair . SO when somebody beats you or is better than you at something then you just wait till they aren't looking and sucker punch them . Then you can take their trophy and be happy !
 

stdreb27

Active Member
Originally Posted by ruaround
http:///forum/post/2655349
they do that here too, until the age of 9... Tee Ball is the absolute worst... even when the kids make a nice play and get the runner out they are still called safe... WTF???!!! every kid is out on the field... thats why this year i petitioned to play my son up... so he played machine pitch (45 to 50 mph) and he only struck out 5 times out of 25 or so times at bat... there were only 9 kids in the feild and 3 (when all 12 showed) sat on the bench... thats the way the game is played and how else are the kiddos supposed to learn it!!!
i'm about as competitive as it comes, but I really have no problem with mellow T-ball games. I used to umpire where they would just let everyone bat twice, then let them run around the bases. Everyone was happy. These kids were just doing this stuff to play it wasn't a competitive league. I'm in no way advocating doing this to everyone, but dont' stick some kid who really just want to chase grasshoppers on the field with kids who really want to play ball. It really worked out for 4 and 5 year old little kids.
 

oscardeuce

Active Member
Originally Posted by stdreb27
http:///forum/post/2655637
i'm about as competitive as it comes, but I really have no problem with mellow T-ball games. I used to umpire where they would just let everyone bat twice, then let them run around the bases. Everyone was happy. These kids were just doing this stuff to play it wasn't a competitive league. I'm in no way advocating doing this to everyone, but dont' stick some kid who really just want to chase grasshoppers on the field with kids who really want to play ball. It really worked out for 4 and 5 year old little kids.
True, but then at some point, you have to switch. Start keeping score, cutting some kids. Some will adapt and overcome. They will comeback stronger and better. Others end up on welfare.
 
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tizzo

Guest
Normally I don't push the emails that momn sends, but this one is perfect!
Bill Gates...
Love him or hate
him, he sure hits the nail on the head with this! Bill Gates recently ga ve a
speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in
school. He talks about how feel-good,politically correct teachings created a
generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up
for failure in the real world.
Rule
1: Life is not fair -
get used to it!
Rule
2: The world won't
care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something
BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
Rule
3: You will NOT make
$60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a
car phone until you earn both.
Rule
4: If you think your
teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.
Rule
5: Flipping burgers
is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger
flipping: they called it opportunity.
Rule
6: If you mess
up,it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes,
learn from them.
Rule
7: Before you were
born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from
paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how
cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites
of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own
room.
Rule
8: Your school may
have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they
have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to
get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in
real life.
Rule
9: Life is not
divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are
interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own
time.
Rule
10: Television is NOT
real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to
jobs.
Rule
11: Be nice to nerds.
Chances are you'll end up working for one.
 
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