Originally Posted by
Merredeth
Slow down....
First off, all this is goes back to basic high school chemistry. Some people have to go back further to remember than others. Some people have a knack for sciences and can figure it out rather quickly while some are slower in learning all about saltwater issues.
Some people can grasp things easier than others. I know for a fact that my husband would never dream of trying to test water on the tanks - or for the pool and hot tub for that matter. Why?? Simply put - he knows his wife has a better understanding of sciences than he does. That doesn't mean he's an idiot because lord knows when it comes to wiring new constuction on our homes we built in the past HE was the genius - not me.
Whether you or others want to call this rocket science isn't the issue. It is science - pure and simple. Everyone has natural gifts. For some it is science that is easily understood and for some it is something they really have to work at to learn and grasp the concepts.
Yes, after awhile the sixth sense kicks in and you think 'perhaps I shouldn't do...." but give the newbies a break here.
We are going to deal with new people coming onto this board each and every day - that is why it is called a PUBLIC FORUM. We can either come on here and have patience with people and educate them with the words that we know or we can get into a pissing match about how 'hard' this hobby is. In the end does it really matter how 'hard' it is? If ten people want to know why their calcium is at 600 and their Ph is at 9, the people who do know the answers to their questions should respond with kindness and respect.
Telling someone to "go smoke another one..." isn't exactly an attitude that fosters people to want to become better fishkeepers. As a matter of fact, comments like that offend me and probably others here too. Not only does it show your immaturity, but it also makes people feel stupid, when in fact they are not stupid - they just don't know.
God has blessed each of us with a certain amount of expendable income to delve into this hobby - in essence God has also allowed us to be in charge of some of his many creatures - and we have a responsiblity as hobbyists to educate those that are just getting blessed with this opportunity to be good to the creatures that are available for our aquariums.
Oceanists, I've always respected your knowledge in the hobby but other off the cuff comments are hardly the type that make me want to give you personally the respect that one would deserve if they chose to write with the intellect I know you have.
I'm off my soapbox now. But it pisses me off when people disrespect others by using comments like "go smoke another one..."
Denise M.
I think you misunderstood me, and the go smoke another one comment.
I was not bashing the newbies personally I like to help and answer questions, Im simply stating that if this hobby is so easy, why do these questions always come up, Newbie or not.
It wasnt directed at anybody, and was more of a joke towards KidWicked than a shot at him. I understand that things are easier for some people than others. But you have to be honest this is a hard hobby and this is the reason why most stores dont guarantee their saltwater fish or corals.
It is also a hard hobby to understand, and for somebody to just come and say this is an easy hobby , maybe they havent experienced the worst of it yet.
Im not making myself out to be a know it all because that deffinatly is not the case.
But if your looking to call something easy then do it with freshwater.
You also state that my comments could make someboidy feel stupid (which wasnt my intention) .... but on the other hand , saying that this hobby is easy can make somebody feel REALLY stupid.
Sorry to offend you , that was my intention at all. JMO
Now that I have wasted my work lunch on defending my post because it was taken out of context , ill go back to work