Originally Posted by
maxalmon
SW65, i'm not picking on you and i'm talking in a general way about newcomers who don't do the proper research, please don't take this the wrong way........................I have to play devils advocate here. In this hobby, unless you have an established relationship with an experienced person or LFS that you TRUST, it's up to YOU to research and make informed decisions. I think all to often that we want to blame someone else for our mistakes and this is not a hobby thats very forgiving. Granted, the FS shouldn't have sold him 9 damsels thats just stupidity, ignorance or greed on their part. If SW65 had posted a "help - what to do" on SWF, many members would have pointed him in the correct direction. He admitted he went against his brothers advice, didn't researced the whole cycle issue, didn't ask for help from the members of this forum and then purchased 9 damsels. Why? because as he mentioned, he was rushing it
Who's more to blame?
So what your saying is that if there were a label on food that said "Good for you, you should eat it 3 times a day!" and the food was a doughnut..what you are syaing is that you should research it first before you eat it thinking its good for you...
No that would be false advertising?? Well the LFS are "false advertising fish"
If you went to say...Wallyworld and bought some fish...well there you can't expect experts...
But you goto a PET STORE , you'd expect them to know about PETS..whatever it is they sell.
I goto a car parts store...when I ask for a throwout bearing for a Mustang I expect them to ask me what kind of mustang, year, etc...
There is an Assumed knowledge that you expect from the place you buy stuff from...Especially a SPECIALTY Store..like not a Wallyworld that happens to sell fish as well..
I don't expect every store to know everything about ever species of fish and live stock ever made....But Every store worker that deals with saltwater fish, should know about how to tell a n00b how to cycle a tank... or say "i don't know let me get someone who can tell you...or read this book!"
I know what you saying and ultimatley we are responsible...but I do think it's fair to expect some basic knowledge from places that sell things...to know abou things they sell.
Otherwise whenever you go anywhere to buy anything you'd have to research it..this is why they have many laws about fraud and advertising.