I think is kind of hard for someone who was no invovled in the situation to determine who to believe. WHAT IF, he really did send it and did not get a confirmation and did not keep a receipt. Think about it... what if it's really one of those situations where you're stuck with no evidence to proof your story.. and everyone is picking sides. Over one misunderstanding.. that everyone is thinking it's a scam... it seems to me that there's a few ppl on this web that had dealt with him.. and had pleasant transaction..I'm not the person, but.. you know he might really send it..who knows..
But, if he really wasn't honest about it, then oh well. Lesson learned. Just be cautious while dealing with EVERY seller online. ...hahaha I'm not taking sides...just putting in my two cents because I'm one of those ppl that is too cheap to get confirmation and will not get confirmation if I don't need to and next thing you know the receipt is in the trash....somewhere. Just give the guy another chance..! Everyone messes up something sometime (not saying that he did.. but he if did..then..u know..)