sharkboy13
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renogaw
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good for you, even if it doesnt happen you still got the courage to ask.
btw, clownboy said he's ryan's age, and ryan said he's in 10th grade. asking for pics from a kid isn't all that smart, and its good he didnt respond.
clownboy's in texas, so he's not amish. most likely Christian, with what sounds like awesome family values, good for you, but i'd attempt to loosen the belt on your views on courting/dating etc. you need to live your own life, not your siblings or you'll never know if they did it wrong.
btw, clownboy said he's ryan's age, and ryan said he's in 10th grade. asking for pics from a kid isn't all that smart, and its good he didnt respond.
clownboy's in texas, so he's not amish. most likely Christian, with what sounds like awesome family values, good for you, but i'd attempt to loosen the belt on your views on courting/dating etc. you need to live your own life, not your siblings or you'll never know if they did it wrong.
ryanhayes9
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Originally Posted by renogaw
good for you, even if it doesnt happen you still got the courage to ask.
btw, clownboy said he's ryan's age, and ryan said he's in 10th grade. asking for pics from a kid isn't all that smart, and its good he didnt respond.
clownboy's in texas, so he's not amish. most likely Christian, with what sounds like awesome family values, good for you, but i'd attempt to loosen the belt on your views on courting/dating etc. you need to live your own life, not your siblings or you'll never know if they did it wrong.
who fonna be axin for pix o me? :hilarious :scared: :scared:
In too sexy for my fat
good for you, even if it doesnt happen you still got the courage to ask.
btw, clownboy said he's ryan's age, and ryan said he's in 10th grade. asking for pics from a kid isn't all that smart, and its good he didnt respond.
clownboy's in texas, so he's not amish. most likely Christian, with what sounds like awesome family values, good for you, but i'd attempt to loosen the belt on your views on courting/dating etc. you need to live your own life, not your siblings or you'll never know if they did it wrong.
who fonna be axin for pix o me? :hilarious :scared: :scared:
In too sexy for my fat
sharkboy13
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is there any rules in the art of chivilry about socking a girl that is acquainted w/ the girl u like? cuz theres this girl on the bus that is going "y the hell did u ask addison out?! y the hll did u ask addison out?!" over and over. im gonna ask her again tomoro (fridays a field trip and it might be difficult to ask her then) and hope she says yes, if not ooh well..
soto
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again, don't mind the 3rd parties. the best thing you wanna do is NOT let them get to you. most of them are saltin your game. even your 'friends'. you'll see, as time goes by, how many 'friends' sell their friendship out for the sake of the opposite ---.
sometimes 3rd parties don't realize that they're killing your game and sometimes they do. either way, they're killin it. don't let em upset you though. focus on the goal at hand. don't stoop down to their level because then it will make you look weak and immature. be the bigger man & show your potential girl that you're mature. she'll dig it. if she doesn't then she's a drama queen herself and it's best to filter those out right away.
sometimes 3rd parties don't realize that they're killing your game and sometimes they do. either way, they're killin it. don't let em upset you though. focus on the goal at hand. don't stoop down to their level because then it will make you look weak and immature. be the bigger man & show your potential girl that you're mature. she'll dig it. if she doesn't then she's a drama queen herself and it's best to filter those out right away.
sharkboy13
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k its just a little annoying when she does it cuz when i try to ignore her she is like poking me to answer but no third party k
soto
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she's a hater. she probably wants you too. so now she's basically saying the player hater anthem: "well if i can't play then i'm taking my ball and going home!"
most girls play games. and when i say most, i mean like 99.95% or so. but nearly every woman (or girl) wants you to be in control. that's what a man does. it's in our nature and that's why girls are more attracted to you when you don't cave in to their silly ways of doin stuff. that's why girls instinctivly go for the jerk over the nice guy. they don't necessarily like jerks but, hey, at least he's in control. the nice guy is afraid to act out on his instincts. therefore he's unattractive! it's all in our primitive instinct. so the lesson here is NOT TO GO OUT OF YOUR WAY.
don't go out of your way to be nice and don't go out of your way to be mean. don't get affected by silly games. laugh em off cause they don't matter. even if they do, you can't let her know because you stop being attractive to her. avoid showing emotions! wait till you're in the relationship and give her a lil more of your emotional side as the relationship progresses BUT NEVER TOO MUCH. that way she's always feedin off you. girls love to chase what they can't have. give her the illusion that she's changing you and bringing out yer soft side.
most girls play games. and when i say most, i mean like 99.95% or so. but nearly every woman (or girl) wants you to be in control. that's what a man does. it's in our nature and that's why girls are more attracted to you when you don't cave in to their silly ways of doin stuff. that's why girls instinctivly go for the jerk over the nice guy. they don't necessarily like jerks but, hey, at least he's in control. the nice guy is afraid to act out on his instincts. therefore he's unattractive! it's all in our primitive instinct. so the lesson here is NOT TO GO OUT OF YOUR WAY.
don't go out of your way to be nice and don't go out of your way to be mean. don't get affected by silly games. laugh em off cause they don't matter. even if they do, you can't let her know because you stop being attractive to her. avoid showing emotions! wait till you're in the relationship and give her a lil more of your emotional side as the relationship progresses BUT NEVER TOO MUCH. that way she's always feedin off you. girls love to chase what they can't have. give her the illusion that she's changing you and bringing out yer soft side.
Shark, it may be that her parents are not going allow her to go anywhere. Parents tend to be more protective of daughters than sons, and won't allow dating at such a young age.
If she is allowed to go to the mall or something, you may suggest to meet her there at some point (and you may have to just put up with her friends too). Perhaps you can just start out by walking her to classes. Then, maybe meet up at a school function.
The price of young love, I'm afraid.
If she is allowed to go to the mall or something, you may suggest to meet her there at some point (and you may have to just put up with her friends too). Perhaps you can just start out by walking her to classes. Then, maybe meet up at a school function.
The price of young love, I'm afraid.
sharkboy13
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well i hope her parents rnt like that, and y cant we have malls? r we to primitive? ok so no emotion, got it. i havent really shown emotion but ok
tanker555
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Originally Posted by puff_puff_
bud my fater was born in the early 40's i know what it was.. and people were having --- when they were 15 and 16 back then. i dont know what mommy and daddy told you but you better get the facts right this generation is no different than any other.. other than the fact that this one doesnt hide it as well.. belive me the 40's 50' 60's were full of dating.. infact thats why cars were invented!!!!!!!!!!! ask your parents oh wait there no help.. ask any one else..
I thought your dad was born June 28th 1950? :notsure:
Originally Posted by puff_puff_
for the record all my grandparents passed before i was born and my dad was a military man and was damn supportive of my dating if not very helpful and if your parents tell you not to kiss girls they need to have there heads examined...
This right here is a killer...Do they know they're dead? Cuz I missed the funeral.
bud my fater was born in the early 40's i know what it was.. and people were having --- when they were 15 and 16 back then. i dont know what mommy and daddy told you but you better get the facts right this generation is no different than any other.. other than the fact that this one doesnt hide it as well.. belive me the 40's 50' 60's were full of dating.. infact thats why cars were invented!!!!!!!!!!! ask your parents oh wait there no help.. ask any one else..
I thought your dad was born June 28th 1950? :notsure:
Originally Posted by puff_puff_
for the record all my grandparents passed before i was born and my dad was a military man and was damn supportive of my dating if not very helpful and if your parents tell you not to kiss girls they need to have there heads examined...
This right here is a killer...Do they know they're dead? Cuz I missed the funeral.
sharkboy13
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ok well i think shes avoiding me oh well, but atleast one of my friends is gonna see if shes really "busy" this weekend
lovethesea
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hmmm..............moooooooove on then. If she doesn't have the class to tell you right away she isn't interested, then she isn't worth it. Just sitting back and letting you hang is not right. 
fish-man-t
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very easy pick a good movie out and simple ash her if she has seen it if she sayes no then ask her to go see it with you and if she sayes yes well then you guys have something to talk about
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jdragunas
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Originally Posted by soto
avoid showing emotions! wait till you're in the relationship and give her a lil more of your emotional side as the relationship progresses BUT NEVER TOO MUCH. that way she's always feedin off you. girls love to chase what they can't have. give her the illusion that she's changing you and bringing out yer soft side.
this is the whole reason i fought with my hubby for the first year of our marriage... he "wooed" me, and i got used to it, and then all of a sudden he stops and his excuse was "i was wooing you, but we're married now and you know i love you and i know you won't leave me"
and i'm still finding things out... like he told me he likes certain things, such as music. Then when i bring it up again now, he says "oh i must have just said that so you'd like me"
personally i don't like the whole "macho" show with no emotions... those guys just irritate me!
avoid showing emotions! wait till you're in the relationship and give her a lil more of your emotional side as the relationship progresses BUT NEVER TOO MUCH. that way she's always feedin off you. girls love to chase what they can't have. give her the illusion that she's changing you and bringing out yer soft side.
this is the whole reason i fought with my hubby for the first year of our marriage... he "wooed" me, and i got used to it, and then all of a sudden he stops and his excuse was "i was wooing you, but we're married now and you know i love you and i know you won't leave me"
and i'm still finding things out... like he told me he likes certain things, such as music. Then when i bring it up again now, he says "oh i must have just said that so you'd like me"
personally i don't like the whole "macho" show with no emotions... those guys just irritate me!
lovethesea
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Renogaw.........did you read this earlier?????
Originally Posted by Sharkboy13
:joy: :joy: ...i think... i asked her if she was doing anything tomoro and she said yes but maybe next weekend, and a girl that hates me said she heard her talking and said that she said that "she didnt no what she saw in me" altho im not sure if i believe her becuz shes done other things to try to make my life horrible
he has already shown interest.......
Originally Posted by Sharkboy13
he has already shown interest.......
soto
Member
Originally Posted by jdragunas
this is the whole reason i fought with my hubby for the first year of our marriage... he "wooed" me, and i got used to it, and then all of a sudden he stops and his excuse was "i was wooing you, but we're married now and you know i love you and i know you won't leave me"
and i'm still finding things out... like he told me he likes certain things, such as music. Then when i bring it up again now, he says "oh i must have just said that so you'd like me"
personally i don't like the whole "macho" show with no emotions... those guys just irritate me!
there's exceptions to everything. whenever i assess stuff on these boards i'm always generalizing. some girls won't like my methods but most will. hell, even a lot of the girls that DON'T like my methods will still go with the guy that uses em vs. the nice emotional tenderfoot.
this is the whole reason i fought with my hubby for the first year of our marriage... he "wooed" me, and i got used to it, and then all of a sudden he stops and his excuse was "i was wooing you, but we're married now and you know i love you and i know you won't leave me"
and i'm still finding things out... like he told me he likes certain things, such as music. Then when i bring it up again now, he says "oh i must have just said that so you'd like me"
personally i don't like the whole "macho" show with no emotions... those guys just irritate me!
there's exceptions to everything. whenever i assess stuff on these boards i'm always generalizing. some girls won't like my methods but most will. hell, even a lot of the girls that DON'T like my methods will still go with the guy that uses em vs. the nice emotional tenderfoot.
puff_puff_
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i also have an older brother but they had to put him away for a while.. and hes no longer aloud near school zones.. poor guy all he has is his fish... right tanker? (tanker555 would be my brother..)
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tanker555
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Originally Posted by puff_puff_
i also have an older brother but they had to put him away for a while.. and hes no longer aloud near school zones.. poor guy all he has is his fish... right tanker? (tanker555 would be my brother..)
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I have a younger brother, but they had to put him away...we used to call it "summer camp" he is currently out though. Poor guy, all he had was his dog and jar of peanut butter until he found his girl "In a school zone".
i also have an older brother but they had to put him away for a while.. and hes no longer aloud near school zones.. poor guy all he has is his fish... right tanker? (tanker555 would be my brother..)
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I have a younger brother, but they had to put him away...we used to call it "summer camp" he is currently out though. Poor guy, all he had was his dog and jar of peanut butter until he found his girl "In a school zone".